Ok lets start from the beginning……..
Around 5months ago on a drunken night out me and a totally straight team mate (like never even thought of being with a girl) made out. Even though she freaked out at the time she gained curiosity and feelings and over subsequent drunken nights out and things started to heat up. This moved on to more serious seeing each other without the influence of alcohol and away from the team setting. Both her and I developed serious feelings for each other and have now been in a relationship for just over a month.
Here’s the problem; she still freaks out from time to time about being with a girl but is usually comfortable with the whole situation so is still confused to a certain extent. Because we decided to be open with each other she has outwardly said or suggested that she misses men/penis which obviously doesn’t ease my insecurities even though we are incredibly close and she says that she loves being in a relationship with me. Most of the time everything is fine and I’m ridiculously happy but these insecurities remain at the back of my head.
This is the part that I need help with; obviously being a woman myself I can’t satisfy her needs for men/penis.
1) How do I approach the issue that obviously needs to be talked about at more length?
2) Do I attempt to ease these needs with the use of toys during sex?
3) Is it just a time bomb waiting to happen?
4) Should I have even got into a relationship that appears to be so confusing?
This isn’t made any easier by the fact that this is my only serious relationship.
Any help or advice would be extremely useful…….thank you in advance