Bisexual Or Just Weird?
Ok. Where to begin?
Alright. I met this guy (he’s about a year older than me) at my karate school (where I teach), and we totally hit it off. Later on he told me he was attracted to me and that he liked me a lot. I felt some attraction for him as well, but I wasn’t sure if I liked him, or the idea of him.
So I just kind of let it fizzle out. But then I started noticing his sister. She’s about a year younger than me, and she’s really great to be around. I have this feeling that’s she not straight, and whenever she talks to me she moves really close and touches me while she talks. I haven’t noticed her doing that with anyone else.
So a couple of days ago, the brother tells me he’s still attracted to me and still likes me. And I feel like I still like him. But I feel like I also like his sister.
And since they’re both students at the school, I’m not “allowed” to have a relationship with either one. I plan on quitting in the next year, but then I’d never see either one of them.
So I don’t know if I’m straight, bi, or a lesbian. What do you girls think? (Sorry it’s kind of weird.)
Thanks so much,
Hannah
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I think I have been in the same situation as you sometimes…
i dunno, i think that often the ‘idea’ that the other person may like you, especially in this new sense of being a girl, and something that is new to you, could be the reason you are interested. in comparison to your boyfriend, you don’t have to feel that you like him as much as he likes you, depends how long it takes, or if there really is a strong connection. it varies between SO many different people.
maybe fool around with his sister in a slightly flirty sense (don’t actually fool around lol =S), and see if there is anything further there or if it’s just how she is. but not so much that your bf could think something is happening. you definitely don’t want to hurt his feelings. especially don’t ask him is she’s not straight cos then it wil lbe on his mind an he might question why you asked.
just spend some more time with the sister and kind of scope out the area through some bonding etc.
you could always try the whole ‘tease’ thing by makin’ out in front of her and see how she reacts lol =P
i’d say you are bi-curious. like me.!
.. i think =S lol
you don’t know if you are actually attracted to girls or if you could actually go any further and even have a relationship with one, but the idea does kind of interest you. You still seem to be attracted to males, but it’s distinguishing between which seems to attract you more that is the hard part.
for now i’d say lie low and do some research.
hope this helps =)
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xo.
Oops. I guess I should have put that I’ve been questioning my sexuality before this whole incident. Since I was like…9 or 10 I guess. Ever since (I hate to admit it) Buffy the Vampire Slayer was on and Willow came out lol
And thank you so much for the feedback!