I Am..
So my girlfriend asked me to marry her. I have never felt so… in love… it’s scary. I said “yes”. No hesitations. But I lay in bed some nights wondering. Does she really love me like she says…
We have been together only 5 months… I have been in the shittiest relationships EVER. From cheating to lying to stealing… I know how to pick them. So, in my head I wonder: can this be so perfect? I don’t really know what love really is or feels like…
So how do I know? She has never made me feel like this isn’t meant to be yet I am afraid of this feeling [love]. I love hard and I love easily. Not a good thing, I have been let down OVER & OVER again. Ugh. I may just be insecure…
I don’t even know what my question is… I just feel lost sometimes!
Miss [Rose]
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I guess I am the most existential out of the commenters, but if it feels right and your gut says yes, do it. You can have a longer engagement if you want to make sure it is the right decision….
Congratulations mate. I am very happy for you. Also, when you have just bad experiences, this won’t mean that you won’t or don’t deserve to have amazing more emotionally fulfilling experiences in the future. Sometimes, bad relationships are just the result of bad luck and other times you go through them to learn something about yourself or others. I think the biggest thing is that if you are still bothered by the past experiences, it might be that you guys will have to work through these things together – but you will always go through disappointments, ups and downs in a relationship. It is how you both work through them and deal with problems as they arise that counts. If you keep your past at arms length and not let it undermine what you currently have, then you’re already winning.
best wishes.
I think you should try to be together for at least a year before deciding. Think about it thats the normal time for straight couples. And that really gives you guys time to be 109% sure. I trust that you are living together, But if you wed then you might find out too late that she is not the girl you thought she was.
Oh my geez GO FOR IT!!! Dude you know how many ppl wanna marry a girl. Come ON! Anyhow, look if she hasn’t given you a reason not to love her or trust her then go for it! Live with her a while though, just to make sure she’s the one. Lol. Gay ppl unite!
Listen to what City Walker said. Lol.
Gay PPL Unite!
go for it! i am!
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOe_6qZzGvI