Am I? Aren’t I? I Am So Confused!
well, I am a 15 year old girl (I don’t know if I’m too young to be on this site but whatever) and I have found myself having strange feelings concerning women. They are very similar to the ones I get when I think about boys… but different. I don’t know if it’s just a phase, or if I only find myself attracted to certain women, or if I just think they’re hot but don’t want to do them.
When my friends and I look in fashion magazines especially the bikini specials, I find myself drawn to boobs, ass and hips while everyone else is commenting on the bikini, I have to keep quite in case I blurt out something…
I feel a bit uncomfortable telling my friends, the only one I have told is my gay friend and he said he felt the same way at first, and that the only way I will know if am lesbian, bi is to have a sexual encounter with a girl, but being 15 and a virgin… I’m not sure if I want to do that.
I just don’t know what to think? I don’t know what to do?
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. About your experience i think...
You know, I’m 27 now, and looking back, I’ve known I was a lesbian since I was 12. BUT, I was too nervous/scared/in denial or whatever to admit that to myself for a long time. I didn’t have my first sexual encounter with a woman until I was 23.
When I was your age, I felt the same way…exactly the same way…right down to being drawn to boobs and ass instead of the bikini
So, I dated a few men, but the more I was dating or with men, the more I realized that wasn’t who I was. And I finally reached a point where I knew I had to be true to myself, otherwise I was going to live a very miserable life.
So, I don’t think, at your age, you should do anything drastic – you don’t need to go sleep with a woman just to find out. Just go with your heart…and desire…and you will figure it out.
hey girl !
i absolutely felt the same
im 15 too (soon to be 16) and i know the feeling of being different, confused and watev. just try to go wid the flow, you know? act normal, .you know wut i mean. im also scared of the things beforehand, of watever may happen. and sometimes i get tired of figuring out and i just ask myself if this is what i really want. try it and see if it works 
goodluck !
i totally feel the same way…. but i cant tell anyone..and everyone i know isnt gunna “do” anything with me.. so idk if ill ever find out…….
you are young… I am 33 and was confused till bout 2yrs ago. Unfortunatly it took a lot of experimenting and YRS of tourturing myself to try and “figure” myself out. I have always known i liked women and always knew the feeling of wanting. But wanting to please your parents n loved ones most often times makes us go against our better judgement, therefore denying ourslvs of what we truly want/need. All i can say is for you to focus on being the best you that you can be and when the right person comes into your life… male or female… you will know. AND GOOD FOR YOU FOR STILL BEIN A VIRGIN! YOU SHOULD BE VERY PROUD OF YOURSELF!