Comments on: I Have No Idea How To Sort This Out http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/07/27/so-confused-i-have-no-idea-how-to-sort-this-out/ Ask A Sister, We Always Answer Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:06:22 +0000 hourly 1 By: Her_Angel http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/07/27/so-confused-i-have-no-idea-how-to-sort-this-out/comment-page-1/#comment-15204 Her_Angel Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:22:32 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=456#comment-15204 It's ok girl, be who you are the way you want to be, don't give a crap with what people say, they don't know you and understand where you're coming from and what your feelings are. don't let people judge you hun, you need no time of that. I don't care, I'll tell people I'm Lesbian if they bring that kind of stuff up, Let them know (anyone, especailly guys) to back off, Hate men. I'm dating for one reaosn lol a women duh. See, I tell myself a lot that I am a lesbian but I won't just pour it out to a lot of people until I truly know who I am. Do that, figure yourself out til you know your 'Label' for sure, then tell the world. It'll take time, but it's worth it in the end (hopefully). Stand high and accept yourself, you've got your whole life ahead of you! (just like me!) Cheers hun. Loves, Ro (I love commenting and giving advice to people, ha. Top Girl Here.=]yay?) It’s ok girl, be who you are the way you want to be, don’t give a crap with what people say, they don’t know you and understand where you’re coming from and what your feelings are. don’t let people judge you hun, you need no time of that. I don’t care, I’ll tell people I’m Lesbian if they bring that kind of stuff up, Let them know (anyone, especailly guys) to back off, Hate men. I’m dating for one reaosn lol a women duh.
See, I tell myself a lot that I am a lesbian but I won’t just pour it out to a lot of people until I truly know who I am. Do that, figure yourself out til you know your ‘Label’ for sure, then tell the world. It’ll take time, but it’s worth it in the end (hopefully).
Stand high and accept yourself, you’ve got your whole life ahead of you! (just like me!) Cheers hun.

Loves, Ro (I love commenting and giving advice to people, ha. Top Girl Here.=]yay?)

]]> By: beth http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/07/27/so-confused-i-have-no-idea-how-to-sort-this-out/comment-page-1/#comment-14995 beth Sun, 10 Aug 2008 05:29:37 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=456#comment-14995 hey, i went throught the same thing. starting high school is hard enough without the thought of being a lesbian and how you will make friends if everybody knows. i came out at 14 and it was one of the hardest things i have had to go through. my advice is to stick with the not labeling yourself just yet. meet new people and make friends, date or just look and keep you mind open. its not a bad thing to be gay. as for the you not looking like a lesbian, there is no lesbian look. if you are a lesbian just be yourself, act and dress like you. hey,
i went throught the same thing. starting high school is hard enough without the thought of being a lesbian and how you will make friends if everybody knows. i came out at 14 and it was one of the hardest things i have had to go through. my advice is to stick with the not labeling yourself just yet. meet new people and make friends, date or just look and keep you mind open. its not a bad thing to be gay.

as for the you not looking like a lesbian, there is no lesbian look. if you are a lesbian just be yourself, act and dress like you.

]]> By: Franny http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/07/27/so-confused-i-have-no-idea-how-to-sort-this-out/comment-page-1/#comment-13716 Franny Wed, 30 Jul 2008 05:30:33 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=456#comment-13716 Im 14 and am going to be a freshmen just like you. And im having the same problems.... If you ever figure it out please tell me. I'm confused and scared and well... its kind of nice to know im not a freak of nature and that their is another person like me out there. Sorry if that sounds mean. (fcarpenter123@msn.com) Sincerely, some one scared Im 14 and am going to be a freshmen just like you. And im having the same problems…. If you ever figure it out please tell me. I’m confused and scared and well… its kind of nice to know im not a freak of nature and that their is another person like me out there. Sorry if that sounds mean. (fcarpenter123@msn.com)

Sincerely, some one scared

]]> By: zoe http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/07/27/so-confused-i-have-no-idea-how-to-sort-this-out/comment-page-1/#comment-13592 zoe Mon, 28 Jul 2008 15:16:01 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=456#comment-13592 Live your life, love who love (be it boys or be it girls) have many different experiences and don't worry about labels. Live your life, love who love (be it boys or be it girls) have many different experiences and don’t worry about labels.

]]> By: wandalake http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/07/27/so-confused-i-have-no-idea-how-to-sort-this-out/comment-page-1/#comment-13490 wandalake Sun, 27 Jul 2008 12:52:19 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=456#comment-13490 A lot of people ask that same question around here: Am I a lesbian? I always tell them the same thing. It doesn't really matter so don't stress over figuring it out. Date whoever you want to whenever you want to. Try not to let other people's expectations and ideas of you affect you too much. These things tend to sort themselves out if you just go with whatever feels natural. Labels can be so limiting sometimes. If you decide right now that you're a lesbian and come out to everyone, but then meet a boy you want to date, everyone will be demanding explanations from you. I don't see the point of going through that trouble right now. On the other hand, if you want to be out and proud, that's great too. You'll find out who is a real friend that way. The point is, try to do whatever makes you the most comfortable. Don't dress or act a certain way because people expect it of you. Lesbians come in all styles. Don't force yourself into a label if you're still unsure. A lot of people ask that same question around here: Am I a lesbian? I always tell them the same thing. It doesn’t really matter so don’t stress over figuring it out. Date whoever you want to whenever you want to. Try not to let other people’s expectations and ideas of you affect you too much. These things tend to sort themselves out if you just go with whatever feels natural. Labels can be so limiting sometimes.

If you decide right now that you’re a lesbian and come out to everyone, but then meet a boy you want to date, everyone will be demanding explanations from you. I don’t see the point of going through that trouble right now. On the other hand, if you want to be out and proud, that’s great too. You’ll find out who is a real friend that way.

The point is, try to do whatever makes you the most comfortable. Don’t dress or act a certain way because people expect it of you. Lesbians come in all styles. Don’t force yourself into a label if you’re still unsure.

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