Is My Girlfriend In Love With Her Friend?
Hi there,
I’m a guy, and my girlfriend is always commenting on how beautiful girls’ bodies are and always tries to hint to me to watch the L word together with her. She’s friends with this absolutely stunning beautiful and petite girl, and gets really upset when her friend doesn’t call her for more than about a week, and almost fell to tears when her friend forgot her birthday.
I have really strong suspicions that she’s so sexually curious about girls, but everytime I try and ask her in a supportive way, she denies it and says that it would be “disgusting” to kiss a girl or have sex with a girl. She treats me like crap all the time, but treats her friend with so much more respect than she does me. What should I do in this situation? What advice can you give me?
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I don’t read anything that sounds like either one of you is unhappy...
The issue is not whether she’s a lesbian or not – the issue is that she treats you badly! And if she treats you badly, you deserve better. You can’t make excuses for her that she’s treating you badly because she’s confused etc etc – bad treatment is bad treatment.
I’ll have to echo what goldfinger said. She may be gay, she may not, but either way if she treats you like crap you should get out of that relationship. There are plenty of girls out there. I’d move on if I were you.
She finds the idea of kissing a girl disgusting but she likes the L word? This doesn’t make so much sense.But either way,if she treats you like crap all the time,you should leave her just for that.