Is This Normal?
Hey,
Well, I’m pretty sure I’m gay, right. And seeing girls naked or even kiss is really hot and can get me really excited. I love girls and I’m a total feminist and I seem to really hate guys. I don’t know why and I have some really good guy friends but I will always choose a girl’s side over a guy’s side in a debate, no matter what the subject is, especially if the girl is pretty. I realize this isn’t quite right and I’m working on it.
However, I have a problem and I wanted to know if you girls thought this was normal or if there is something wrong - as in maybe I’m not gay, or not completely and before you ask, no I have never done anything with a woman but I have also never done anything with a man. I’m 18.
So the thing is, I can get excited looking at a girl or thinking of doing things with a girl but when I masturbate, to get off, I need to think of a guy having really rough sex with a girl. Is there something wrong with me? I don’t think this is normal!
Any advice or thoughts? Anything would help, thanks a lot!
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It’s normal. Some people fantasize about their sex lives, and some people fantasize about things they would never do. Given how much some lesbians love their strap-ons, I bet you’re not the only lesbian with fantasies like these.
Relax and enjoy the trip! Exploring own fantasies is great and without any guilt are even better! Don’t worry, in sex everything is allowed (of course with protection and respect for yours and others desires). Maybe some day you will be lucky enough to live your fantasy with a strap on and a beautiful girl.
Watch L word episode when girls go to the pink subaru ride. You will love it!
I agree with the previous comments,i identify as lesbian, love girls and have no desire to be with a man however i sometimes fantasize about men having sex with women. For me its all about the feeling of pleasing/ being pleased by a woman. These feelings are normal,once you start having relationships with girls and discover strap-ons you will be more comortable in your own skin and feel more confident about your sexuality. Enjoy yourself and try not to worry!
Hey! I just wanted to say that though I don’t do it all the time, sometimes I also fantasize about a man having sex with a woman. It’s arousing to think of penetration and the woman being pleased. I was really confused for a while and wondering “am I really a lesbian?” After a few years though, I figured out that it’s just that the sex act turns me on. I still feel totally attracted to women and identify as a lesbian. Because the truth is…I’ve never really had any crushes on guys and that’s what helped me figure it out. I’m sure your situation is pretty similar to mine.
i completely agree! to get off i usually have to think of having sex with a man, or another woman doing so, but i would never, ever get turned on by a man in the real world.
fantasies are beautiful creations of the imagination. they don’t mean you’re straight.