Should I Just Come Out?
When I was 13 I told my mum I was bisexual. I’m now 19 and over the years I’ve thought a lot and realized how much I like girls… I’ve had boyfriends because I’ve liked them, though I’ve never slept with a guy and I really don’t want to. This makes me think I’m gay, for the last year and a half I tell myself I’m gay because I know guys just don’t do it for me.
My closest friends say I’m gay; it doesn’t bother them or me. My best friend is the first girl I ever kissed when I was 14 and she says I’m not gay, though I think she’s scared for me… she’s always been protective over me. My mum and dad and one of my sisters think I’m gay… though I tell them I’m not.
I’m sick of going out and getting hit on by guys, I used to not mind and just went with it but really I don’t want anything to do with them, I would rather have some nice girl with me. Just wondering if I should just come out, I’m scared because my brother and other sister (plus the rest of my family) have no idea, but I have the people I love on my side if I come out… What do you think?
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. About your experience i think...
Hey Mate,
your parents sound like they are just waiting for you to come out. It might relieve a bit of pressure for you knowing that the most important people are on your side. Unfortunately even when you do come out, you will still get a lot of guys hit on you (at least that’s been my experience). However, you’ll soon just take it in your stride as a compliment I suppose. You’ll meet the right girl soon and coming out might push you to take some steps into the community and meet someone great.
yeah, i read your story and its full of what other people think…it really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks as long as you are true to yourself. Come out and embrace the gayness you will feel like great weight has been lifted from your shoulders. The most important thing is to be happy