Comments on: Can Anyone Help A Girl Out, Please?

By: Update - Thanks for your support » The Lesbian Question

Update - Thanks for your support » The Lesbian Question — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 08:22:14 +0000

[...] else out there who is questioning who or what they are, it’s okay. About a month ago, I posted asking for help. I was so confused, I didn’t know what to do. I also felt that I didn’t have anyone [...]

By: bougainvillea

bougainvillea — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 04:12:09 +0000

i also suggest that you find someone to talk to.
i can relate to what you say about not knowing who else is gay. but in time it will all work out. in time.
try to be happy and talk to someone, any counselor. sounds like you really just need to talk. you will eventually sort it all out.
take it from someone who’s been there. you are still so young. time is the key. take care and try to SMILE!

By: b.SL

b.SL — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 22:53:18 +0000

You poor soul. I recommend seeing if there’s a gay/lesbian counselor in your area, because it sounds like more than anything, you really, really need someone to talk to about your feelings. I don’t know how ot advise you, but I do know I felt exactly the same way (how do I express these feelings if I don’t know who else is gay?)
When I met the right girl, I knew. But that may not help you now, so please try to find someone to talk to who will understand. Who knows? You may be tormenting yourself for nothing. It kind of sounds like you admire the close companionship, and that can be found with both men & women.