Comments on: Does She Like Me?

By: lockedcloset

lockedcloset — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 16:57:23 +0000

hey hannahleigh, i understand exactly how you feel. i’m in love with my bestfriend. she isn’t the kind where everyone finds her beautiful but to me, she is the most beautiful person in my life. we are really really close and she only opens up to me.
the biggest problem i’m facing: i don’t dare to confess to her.
as in, i really like the close-relationship we have right now and i really don’t want to destroy the relationship we have now. so it really hurts to stay hidden in the closet but for me, i guess i’ll stick with it. if you really love someone, you would be satisfied to be with her. even though it hurts but trust me, it is worth it.

By: expert angel

expert angel — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 03:02:29 +0000

the first thing you really must do is have a convo with the girl. after church or before church. chat it up with her. start off by saying hey my name is ….blah blah blah. and talk to her every chance you get. get to know her. get to be her friend before you start anything. kiinda give her hints and she might even tell u she likes u before u tell her ! trust me on this. u will know what to do after u start convos with her. gooooood luck ! -expert angel

By: HELPME!!

HELPME!! — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 01:48:58 +0000

I hope someone replies to this an help me out! My situation is kinda like the girl above but still a little different. Ok, its this girl that I see just about every Sunday and I think that she is a big influence why I go to church. Shame to say but it is the truth. At first I just thought she was pretty an nothing else to it, but that was like THREE YEARS AGO!! An now I think about her just about all day. I dont think she’s gay or bisexual or anything like that but she often gives me these looks. Sometimes it seems like she’s looking for me whenever we are at church. Seriously. She could be in the front of the church an I can be at the back an we some how find each other an lock eyes. This past Sunday was weird though, the preacher asked will anyone be at the evening service an she raised her hand an turned around to look at me like she was signaling that she wanted me to go as well. An i did go to church that evening! When I walked in we coincedently sat on the same row! When she saw me she smiled an I instantly felt blood rushing all over. Throughout the service I occasionally looked her way an whenever we locked eyes I huried an looked away because i dont want her thinking anything if she not feeling the way that I am. But she looks at me quite often an I never really had a real conversation with this girl other then saying hello. I dont think Im gay or bi or anything its just something about her that I adore. Her inner beauty as well as her outer beauty. Now can someone help me out please!! i have two bestfriends, one that is a gay guy an one is a straight girl an I get different opinions from both of them. The gay guy thinks that she just wants to have a conversation with me. An the other one thinks its just funny. I want a straight answer to what this is, I dont want to go to this girl an look like an ass. Me being 18 an her being 20 is already bad enough so I just need a little advice from someone who knows what there talking about!

By: Chippy29

Chippy29 — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 02:46:34 +0000

i was in your situation too and being in high school myself i know what your feeling.
i have learned some girls are just more relaxed around friends and if she has a boyfriend she is prolly straight and i wouldnt try to mess with that your more likely to get yourself hurt. girls also sometimes send signals that they are totally unaware of and don’t even mean too.

and believe me the first 3-4 months seem really slow and impossible to find ppl but you will be able to find girls if your honest and especially at an all girls school there are a lot more lesbians than you think:)
it will come and just focus on being friends with this girl you will be a lot happier.