Please Help
Yeah, so I have never done anything like this before, and right now I don’t have people in my life that can really understand what I am going through. A short while ago I started hanging out with a friend of a friend. Things were going good and I really started liking this girl. The more we talked and hung out the more I thought that she was feeling the same for me. After a night of sitting at the bar and talking for hours, I drove home and emailed her. I told her how I felt. I have never, in my 23 years of living, done that. Well, she emailed me back and told me that she was proud of me and coming out with my feelings, but she didn’t feel the same way. She said that she was only into guys. She still wants to be friends and hang out together.
It wasn’t even a week after I told her my feeling and she was calling me again. She wants to hang out more now than what we did in the past. I don’t know what to do, the more we hang out the more I fall for her. I know that it isn’t good for me, but it’s nice to have somebody to talk to and I feel like if I told her that I can’t be friends with her cause my feelings aren’t going away that it’s only going to hurt her. And right now, she is going through some problems and she really needs a friend that is there for her. And right now I am that friend.
Can somebody please give me some type of light at the end of the tunnel?
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. About your experience i think...
Hey there I was here with my sis when she was reading it cause she is an obvious lesbian….lol. BUt any who. I ust wanna yes i know i am a gay guy but i do hope my opinion means something to u.
I think you sholh continue being freinds with her. DOnt give ur self false hope. And be re assured that its ok to have feeling for your frens. I have a very good fren now who I thought i was falling for. When in actual truth now I realized that I was in love with the freind, not a boy freind. So I loved our frenship. Feel free to blog. Our lesbians here in Bze need to here stuff like this.
So don’t worry about it. And Please feel free to email me and please promote my Beizean Site for gays. at http://www.rainbowbz.wetpaint.com
You’re right. I see what you mean. One difference is that the chick I’m interested in is acutally bi. Her boyfriend is cool with when we get drunk and only want to touch each other (again, back to the “only sexual” thing). But it is really frustrating to have those feelings and even if you get to share them as you did, it still takes a big toll when you can’t express them. I understand what your going through completely.
You’re just ganna fall harder for her the more you hang out and the closer you get but she will never change so spare your self the pain, read this:
http://lovingastraightgirl.com/?p=10 it might help!