Now I Really Need Help!
Well on Friday I was totally crying because I thought I wouldn’t see the girl I’m in love with again, but today I run into her at the mall! She was sooo gorgeous! As always! I was sooooo nervous (she always makes me nervous, and I’m usually the one that makes people nervous, I really hate it! she the only one that makes me nervous!) anyway we started to talk, we were walking and she was so close to me OMG! oh oh also a really hot guy was totally looking at us, in the past she would have said to me: omg that guy is sooo hot, let’s go talk to him, but she didn’t say anything about him, and I know she realized that the guy was hot, I also didn’t say anything I mean I acted as if the guy didn’t exist because I remember her reaction when she saw me flirting with guys, she would do it even more than me, and it was like a competition so I learn from my mistakes and I didn’t look at the guy that much, I think we talked for 30 minutes and the she told me she had to go and I was like yeah me too, and we kiss on the cheek (but in this country that’s how you greet) but the kiss was sooo soft and sensual and slow. Omg! And then she said to me: hey let’s hang out, to the movies or something, and I was like: do you have credit on you cell? She said yes, so send me a message, she looked at me like saying: smart ass (I guess she thought I wouldn’t return the call) so I said to her: ok ok I’ll call you.
So here the part I need help in… when should I call her? I was thinking of calling her next Wednesday so we would go out on Friday, but then I think she might get upset if I wait that long to call her, but I was thinking of a total make over so I could be hotter for her. :-) And that includes a 7 days diet. :-( But then I think what if she’s only being friendly, I mean a few months ago we wouldn’t even look each other in the eyes, I acted as if I didn’t know her and sometimes she did the same to me. I’m sooo confused! I mean I know I haven’t kissed her and she has never said she’s into me except for one day a few years ago when she asked me how to say “I’m in love with you” in English (we speak Spanish) and when she said the I’m in love with you part, she gave me this look and I just melted and blushed.
What should I do? When should I call her? And if we go out should I say to her that I like her? I don’t know if she likes girls but a really good friend we have in common told me that she said to her that she was bi…
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. About your experience i think...
i think u should call her now then ask her for a movie just what frends do…but don`t expect that the feeling is mutual coz if u expect that she likes u too and then it didn`t happen it will hurt u so much..
i have a little advice to u, have a long conversation with her in a private place then if u have the guts, tell her that u like her..example “u know i like u…but i`m not expecting that u love me back.i know it`s crazy but it`s true. i want u to know this coz i`m true to u. i know that u care for me coz i`m ur best frend…” then if she tells u that sorry i just love u as a frend then tell her that it`s ok (even if it`s not) u dont want to ruin ur frendship…then if she tells u that she likes u too then tell her how much u adore her then kiss her…
tell her u like her in a joke way if u dont want to be that serious…then look at her reaction…then wait for her to say anything before u tell it`s just a joke…
just have guts to tell her that u like her…
u know i have a gf b4 then she wants us to bestfrend but when she found out that i liked a new girl she is getting jealous..really! then she told me that she still love me..
Goodluck! hope it would help u..sorry i`m not that good in english but i hope u can understand what i told u…
take care nd Godbless!
Awww… I absolutely adore these kinda stories
Well, I agree about calling sooner than later. But don’t confess your love right away! You don’t want to freak her out or anything. You just met her again after a few months, right? Instead, send out hints that you like her. For example, when you call her, say that it made your day bumping into her at the mall after all these months. Or you could probably say that it was funny seeing her at the mall because you were just thinking about her! Anyway, just get the point across that you were genuinely happy to see her that day. Then, make your plans of meeting up on Friday.
Don’t worry, there’s a good chance that she’s being more than just friendly. If a mutual friend says that she’s bi, she probably is. Plus, she’s the one who asked you out to the movies, more or less, so obviously she does want to hang out.
Anyway, don’t rush and just go with the flow. Don’t forget to send her lots of signals! Maybe pick a scary movie or something, ask her if she’d like to share one big tub of popcorn, cuz you know why lol. I know, it’s cheesy but classic moves never fail… and besides, it’s the only way you can read her.
Good luck, and tell us what happened after your “date”
Go for it! This sounds soo good
Ok, maybe you should do what Pinky says, and not rush the “I like you part”, but really… I don’t think I could keep my mouth shut that long. As you describe it, I really think she’s into you too. And she’s bi, right? So no worry’s 