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By: A New Start… » The Lesbian Question

A New Start… » The Lesbian Question — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:42:13 +0000

[...] so a few months ago I posted about how I was still in love with the same girl I’ve always loved, she was studying at the same place I was, it had been more that 2 years since the last time we [...]

By: Sophie

Sophie — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:59:15 +0000

Go for it! This sounds soo good Ok, maybe you should do what Pinky says, and not rush the “I like you part”, but really… I don’t think I could keep my mouth shut that long. As you describe it, I really think she’s into you too. And she’s bi, right? So no worry’s

By: pinky

pinky — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 21:07:47 +0000

Awww… I absolutely adore these kinda stories

Well, I agree about calling sooner than later. But don’t confess your love right away! You don’t want to freak her out or anything. You just met her again after a few months, right? Instead, send out hints that you like her. For example, when you call her, say that it made your day bumping into her at the mall after all these months. Or you could probably say that it was funny seeing her at the mall because you were just thinking about her! Anyway, just get the point across that you were genuinely happy to see her that day. Then, make your plans of meeting up on Friday.

Don’t worry, there’s a good chance that she’s being more than just friendly. If a mutual friend says that she’s bi, she probably is. Plus, she’s the one who asked you out to the movies, more or less, so obviously she does want to hang out.

Anyway, don’t rush and just go with the flow. Don’t forget to send her lots of signals! Maybe pick a scary movie or something, ask her if she’d like to share one big tub of popcorn, cuz you know why lol. I know, it’s cheesy but classic moves never fail… and besides, it’s the only way you can read her.

Good luck, and tell us what happened after your “date”

By: almonds

almonds — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 17:30:35 +0000

i think u should call her now then ask her for a movie just what frends do…but don`t expect that the feeling is mutual coz if u expect that she likes u too and then it didn`t happen it will hurt u so much..

i have a little advice to u, have a long conversation with her in a private place then if u have the guts, tell her that u like her..example “u know i like u…but i`m not expecting that u love me back.i know it`s crazy but it`s true. i want u to know this coz i`m true to u. i know that u care for me coz i`m ur best frend…” then if she tells u that sorry i just love u as a frend then tell her that it`s ok (even if it`s not) u dont want to ruin ur frendship…then if she tells u that she likes u too then tell her how much u adore her then kiss her…

tell her u like her in a joke way if u dont want to be that serious…then look at her reaction…then wait for her to say anything before u tell it`s just a joke…

just have guts to tell her that u like her…

u know i have a gf b4 then she wants us to bestfrend but when she found out that i liked a new girl she is getting jealous..really! then she told me that she still love me..

Goodluck! hope it would help u..sorry i`m not that good in english but i hope u can understand what i told u…
take care nd Godbless!