Crazy Confused
Ok well I’m 21 years old and I have identified myself as bi curious border line bisexual for the past 5 years. Ever since I was 16 I have found myself go through phases were I’m extremely attracted to women. The weird part is that the feeling comes and goes. When I stop being attracted to women and become attracted to men I find myself completely uninterested in women, I don’t find them attractive at all. The reason I never concluded that I was bisexual was because I never got feelings towards any particular woman it was just intense attractions.
Well now I find myself in that phase again but this time it feels more than a phase. Everyday I find myself less and less attracted to men; however I’m still crushing on one of my guy friends. The reason I believe this time it’s more than a phase is because I recently met this girl who I was not attracted to when I met her (before the girl “phase”) but now I find myself so intensely attracted to her and her personality. I finally have a girl crush. My question is does this conclude that I am in fact bisexual or a lesbian or could I possibly bounce back and like men more than women like before? Has this happened to anyone else?
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Hi! I don’t want to say “easy words”, but just I am going to share with you, how I handled my situation, which seems similar. For me it is natural for some people to be attracted by both sexes. The factor “time” or “period” does not exist; only the factor person. When I am attracted to someone (female or male) is because the specific person “has something”, which moves me that particular period of my life. So, I am not looking for giving a label to my sexual orientation. I am a person who just falling in love…with a man or a woman does not have any matter. The problems for me are others…if the other person likes me … if the other person is available or if I am available…what will happen if we have an open (heterosexual or homosexual) relationship…
Please, try to not add more “guestions” to the already social situation-context. I hope that girl to be equally attrected to you and then … just enjoy the colors of love!
Best wishes! (-:
wow, you just explained my life exactly. I thought I was the only one who went through these phases. Although i have felt attracted to girls for on and off for about two years now, i just recently started having actual feelings for one of my best friends. I have all the same questions as you do but at least its nice to know someone else feels the same way.
I feel the exact same way and have been going through the same thing since i was like 10 years old so i thought it was just a phase too.. but then it’d go away and then i’d be even more attracted to girls.. i always just tried to ignore it or hide it.. but i’m almost positive that i am bisexual and for the past 6 months i’ve only been attracted to women, and i tried hooking up with a guy just to see if i still liked it but it really didn’t seem right.. I don’t really like to label myself.. cause it really doesn’t matter.. i wish i just knew for myself if i’m really bi or gay.. because i feel like i’m too old to still be so confused~