Am I Straight, Bi-curious, Lesbian or Bisexual?

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Hi! This is my first time posting but recently I’ve been extremely confused about my sexuality and feelings.
It all started when I met this girl who works at a sandwich store. She’s butch (short hair but really beautiful eyes), and for some reason I get really nervous when I see hear. I slur my words, my heart starts pounding really fast, etc. etc. And I didn’t really question my sexuality until I met her. I’m into guys too but now every time I see a girl with very short hair (butchy hair) I don’t know I can’t help but feel some kind of attraction. What does this mean? I’m confused LOL.

I’m happy for any ideas, any suggestions that can help me understand more about my sexuality or what it is I’m feeling. I grew up in an Asian household and homosexuality is shunned, so I’m kind of afraid to make any drastic moves.

Thanks! :]



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Topics: Bisexuality, Coming Out, Gaydar, The Lesbian Question At Random: Read A Random TLQ Blogpost

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    I think that might just be your gaydar =)

    Comment by DCM on November 20, 2008 @ 4:30 am

    Sounds like you’ve got a little gay in you. There’s no reason to be confused by this, it’s nature at its finest. You see a fine individual, your body reacts. The whole slurring of words is a nice allusion to alcohol aka [something that can be very] intoxicating.

    So what next? Talk to her! I mean, just because you suspect you might be bisexual/gay, there’s no reason to call a family meeting, especially if you live in a strict household. Just have fun exploring your sexuality. You don’t need to go on a date with this girl; a simple conversation will be enough to tell if its simple curiousity or something much greater ;)

    Good Luck

    Comment by evolution on November 20, 2008 @ 4:45 am

    there’s nothing wrong admiring women..

    Comment by shine on November 20, 2008 @ 9:10 am

    I understand where your coming from because at one point I wasn’t sure either if I wanted to continue liking guys or go out with the girl i met. I chose to be with her. But the only way it started was simple conversation;) Start out with that and see what happens. You neva know=]

    Good luck!

    Comment by Little cc on November 22, 2008 @ 2:55 am

    Don’t fret girl. You just might be bi-curious. =P we are only human, go out and explore it more. Conversation will do (with this women, i mean). do you know her?? if not, friends are always the best gift. =] cheers love. everyone has their little crushes. =]

    Loves, Ro

    Comment by Her_Angel on November 22, 2008 @ 2:57 am

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