How Come I Can’t Be Sexual?
This is my first time writing but I really need help with this. Ok my girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 10 months and she has asked me a few times why I’m not the arouser or being the sexual one to her. I don’t know what to say because I don’t know what I’m doing wrong? I do sexual things to her but probably not as much as her. I feel horrible that I don’t because I know she is disappointed at times. Which bothers me because I want our sex life to be well but also not out of hand.
I’ve tried different things but it seems like not much has effect on her. I know were her sensitive spots are and I use those as an advantage but for example, when we finger each other, I just lose it when she does it to me. But when I do it to her, it’s hurting her and I hate when I do. I try the best I can to be gentle with her but it’s like extremely sensitive or something. For some reason also, I’m the one who is very easily turned on. I don’t know why but I just am. And for some odd reason, I get wet w/o even being touched by her! She could just walk in some sexy way or I’ll look at her ass (lol) and get turned on or wet. My God… I don’t get it! But the only time she really gets wet is when I ate her out. But we’ve only done that once with one another and just recently.
I don’t want to sound obsessive with this topic but I really want to know how can I be more sexual? Please help me. Are there any suggestions to do ‘certain’ things/ways that really turns her on? Not to sound weird but some times I’ve been watching lesbian porn (sorry, awkward) but only to see new ways.
Thanks,
Little cc <3
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Umm… why don’t you TALK TO ME instead. Only I know my turn ons. No one else would. Everyone likes different things and gets aroued differently. And the getting wet easier is not a problem, everyone is different. Some less, some more than others. The fingering thing, i really don’t know but it is NOT your fault for it. if it hurts, don’t do it. DO something else. Don’t fret!
Love You Sweety!!!
Loves, Ro
humm. weeeeelll u can try this: u can massage her real soft, run ur arm trough her back, look at her with passion in ur eyes, wispers on her ear, when shes about 2 leave to a room or something (if shes not going 2 do something important)go after her and grab her by the wist, stuff like that. getting wet is normal even if u get easily wet. the fingering thing if u do her with 2 do her with one or do her clit and stuff. thats all i can say for now.SURPRISE HER!! give her a “im mean/bad”look play w/ ur eyes, follow ur intints, dont be afraid of doing something wrong