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I’ve had thoughts about my sexuality and women for a couple of years now but I never really seriously considered the fact that I may be bisexual. I decided to wait until I’ve been in a semi-serious relationship, (not on purpose), for a little over a year with a man. Recently, I’ve seemed to develop feelings for a particular girl and I fantasize about having sex with her sometimes. At the same time, I feel that I am in love with my boyfriend. I’m just not sure if these sexual feelings are a manifestation of the lack of sexual satisfaction from my boyfriend. Intercourse with him is quite painful and I do not enjoy it at all. I do enjoy oral stimulation from him though. Oddly enough, I still find him physically attractive. This situation is very frustrating and confusing. I would love to explore my curiosity with females, but I’m afraid that it will only make my confusion worse. Also, I don’t want to lose my boyfriend because he’ll leave me if I do choose to experiment. I’m aware of how crazy this sounds, but I really need advice. I really appreciate your time if you’re reading this. Please feel free to reply.