Comments on: Am I The Bad Guy (Girl)? http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/11/29/am-i-the-bad-guy-girl/ Ask A Sister, We Always Answer Wed, 17 Mar 2010 04:19:33 +0000 hourly 1 By: Charlie http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/11/29/am-i-the-bad-guy-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-27297 Charlie Sun, 30 Nov 2008 03:45:48 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=721#comment-27297 I agree with the above, but if you do feel guilty, why not sit your girl down and explain that you like her but aren't sure about your sexuality, just as a warning, so that if she's not ok with it, she has the opportunity to say so, and you both come clean in the relationship. I agree with the above, but if you do feel guilty, why not sit your girl down and explain that you like her but aren’t sure about your sexuality, just as a warning, so that if she’s not ok with it, she has the opportunity to say so, and you both come clean in the relationship.

]]> By: evolution http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/11/29/am-i-the-bad-guy-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-27278 evolution Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:29:54 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=721#comment-27278 Totally agree: you are completely overanalyzing things! The reason you run from all your relationships is because you talk yourself out of them. Take your current relationship, for example. You have a girl after you who "is down to earth, genuine, beautiful, strong." You don't like her because she likes you, you like her because she's a damn good catch! Like sapphochic said, it probably seems like she's more into you because she's not as afraid to fall. Stop spectating from the sidelines of all your relationships. Take down some of that armor and get into something real. Good Luck Totally agree: you are completely overanalyzing things! The reason you run from all your relationships is because you talk yourself out of them. Take your current relationship, for example. You have a girl after you who “is down to earth, genuine, beautiful, strong.” You don’t like her because she likes you, you like her because she’s a damn good catch!

Like sapphochic said, it probably seems like she’s more into you because she’s not as afraid to fall. Stop spectating from the sidelines of all your relationships. Take down some of that armor and get into something real.

Good Luck

]]> By: sapphochic http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2008/11/29/am-i-the-bad-guy-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-27232 sapphochic Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:38:34 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=721#comment-27232 See, here's the thing...people get all caught up in "who they are" instead of just simply being. You are in a relationship which you enjoy, one in which both you and your girl are happy. Why ruin it by over thinking things? Seriously. She is probably more into you than you are her because she isn't afraid to love you. It doesn't have anything to do with being gay or straight, it has to do with your being afraid to give your heart to someone. Until you do, you'll always be questioning everything. See, here’s the thing…people get all caught up in “who they are” instead of just simply being. You are in a relationship which you enjoy, one in which both you and your girl are happy. Why ruin it by over thinking things? Seriously. She is probably more into you than you are her because she isn’t afraid to love you. It doesn’t have anything to do with being gay or straight, it has to do with your being afraid to give your heart to someone. Until you do, you’ll always be questioning everything.

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