I Have Questions…
Hi sisters
I’m fourteen and I’m Asian. I’ve always wanted to post my story on this site so I’m doing it now. Let’s get straight to the point now…
I have a crush on this pretty girl who is in my class for almost a year now. At first, I didn’t like her but she was sending me signs first. So, about 2 months since I know her, I decided to tell her that ‘I like her a lot’ by sending her a message and she didn’t reply for about 5 or 10 minutes. Then I realised what a stupid thing I’ve just done so I sent her a message saying that it was sent wrongly to her. Do you know what happened next? She replied me immediately saying that it was ok.
Then there was this time when we went out together with our friends and at the end of the day, she purposely acted like she was going to kiss one of our friends and then she stared at me like she was checking if I was jealous but I just smiled at her. The same thing happened again during our PE period, she was doing the same thing to the same girl and then she stared at me to see my reaction but I just kept quiet like it doesn’t matter to me. Then there was this ‘class activity’ when we met each other in the school canteen with our group of friends then she held my chin and asked me if I miss her and I just laughed and said no (I know I’m a real fool but I guess she was just kidding with me.) After that nothing special happened we were just like normal friends, and I sometimes think she likes me too but sometimes it’s otherwise. By the way, we are both talkative but when we are with our friends or when we are alone together we just don’t talk to the other or she just says something to me and I just answer her and that’s all.
So here is my question to all the sisters out there:
- How do I know when she likes me too?
- How do I tell her I like her/ask her out?
Thanks to those who read this post.
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Hi,
I am from Asian too. I knew your situation as I had gone through that myself while I was still in high school. The problem here is you can’t tell whether she likes you or not. It seems like one day you feel that she likes you a lot but on the other day she just put a cold shoulder on you. Well, for me it’s really hard to tell what she feels for you. I kinda had this feelings with some of my friends in high school also, but it turned out that they were just being curious about the whole girl on girl thing…..
Telling her? Hmmm, my advice is that you be friends with her first before taking the big step into telling her how you feel. She may not be the right one for you. Believe me, sometimes you feel this way because you are just curious and second because she is the first one that acted that way towards you. Just act like normal. It’s ok that you ask her out for a drink or a movie or so. Try to know more about her. If it just a crush the feeling will go away when you know her better. But if it’s not going away and you feel more and more attach to her, then I think it’s time to tell her what you feel, but only if you find her reacts the same way as you do. Until then good luck and take care…..
Thanks alot Cannla…
And there is this one more thing…There was this period of time i thought the feelings i have for her gone away but then it comes back again 2 or 3 weeks later…..
Hi it’s me again. I think what you have is normal. It happened to me before really. You should give yourself more time, and take this opportunity to know more people. If you don’t really love her then your feelings will go away. You are still young and you should be able to wait. Let time decides…..
hell yeaaa she likes u dude, if i were in ur shoes, and the girl that i like gave me hints like holding my chin and asking me if i miss her, i would totally go for it, even if u still have some doubts that she might not like u cause she’s not lesbian or something. be sure that she is a lesbian because she tried to make u feel jealous while almost kissing another girl, not another guy!!! and that’s a good point for u… for me i wish that the girl that i like gives me hints like yours did, so go for it sister, just go for it!
tc and good luck with her:)
Definetly just go for it, if she’s not into you it’ll probably be fine anyways, cuz I really don’t see that u have much to loose, but u can win a lot if u give it a try!
Good luck!