What Is She Thinking?
Hi again. If you don’t remember my case you can read it here. In a few words, my girl left me due to the pressure of her family and married a guy in August. After her marriage we kept contact but it’s very rare, about once or twice a month. Lately I’m very calm comparing to my previous reactions. What is making me write again is the fact that she is acting strangely. I mean every time I call her or sms her she never answers and then she calls me back at very strange hours, like after midnight. A friend of mine told me once like a joke that she’s doing it to avoid her husband. But this is happening every time and I’m considering if this is true. And lately she’s pressing me to meet her. Yesterday she asked me to go to her apartment. I didn’t answer and she said “did you hear what I said?” She called another common friend and our friend thinks that she is not happy, but I can’t say something like that as she didn’t tell me that. After she met him she never called a common friend, so it’s odd. Yet I don’t want to make conclusions.
And something about the other girl who was flirting me, she pressed me many times to go on vacation together in summer and we went 3 times (not alone, with friends) and in September, while on a trip, she came to my room at night and asked me openly. I didn’t know what to tell her because although she’s cute, I’m afraid to do anything again after the situation I’ve passed, and also I’m not in love with her but I like her a lot.
Girls, you helped me a lot the previous times and I’m asking for your help again.
Thank you all for being here!
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it’s me again, so_tired. I’d like to ask you one more question, except of what’s she thinking, what do you think, should I visit her as she asked me? Our common friends told me that they are going to pay her a visit the next days and asked me to join them.
that is hard to say… if you think you can bear it, imo you should go.
i mean… i am really interpreting too much here.. but to me, the way she behaves sounds scary … what if she is in trouble, like if her husband beats her or something? but then if you go and see her, who knows if you will get any answers or just more questions.
i’d say try it out because its better to know than to keep asking yourself these questions forever.
best wishes to you!
Thank you honig. She called a couple of friends yesterday and today and she asked them to visit her and she told both of them to take me with them adding “I don’t know if she wants, but I want her to come and visit me”. So, it’s scheduled for tommorrow afternoon and after lot of thinking I decided to go and see her. Personally I don’t think that her husband could hit her. He seems a peaceful man. But he is about 14 years older than her. I believe that if she doesn’t feel comfortable there, it would be just because she wasn’t longing to marry him.
Anyway, tommorrow I would have some answers. Please check my post to read the progress.