Confused And Sex Dazed
I am a 23 year old lesbian woman dating a 27 year old single mother of 4 and while age and the number of children doesn’t matter to me the fact that this is her first lesbian relationship does, I knew she was straight at the start of our relationship but she had no problem with loving me with open arms. We spend lots of time together and the sex is great but she wants me to be around her family but as a friend. I’ve been openly gay since 18 and I know what it’s like to be confused but I never lie about who I am. All of my friends and family know we’re dating and I want her to give me the same satisfaction. I’m starting to think I’m her dirty little secret, in public I can’t get any pda (public display of affection) but when we’re in either one of our houses we’re cuddling all day. I’m starting to wonder if I’m wasting my time and should just go and find a lesbian that fits me or school my old head and make it work?
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it’s a difficult situation…but you should talk to her…maybe the reason she isn’t so open it’s her children…i’ve been in this situation..it’s hard…but for me the most important thing is that i love her…i don’t care if i’m deprived of PDA..i’m not with her just to show her off..i’m with her because we are trying to build a future together…but if you feel frustrated, just talk to her…find out what are her reasons…explain your situation to her…things can work out if you comunicate
good luck
That’s good advice from just me.
Give it some time. I do not know how long you two have been together but stuff like that, especially since your are her first, takes time. PDA and the rest of that, is it better than your alone time together? Probably not. Communicate how you feel but also give her some room to come to things naturally.
She has kids- that could complicate things as well so, try not to be so hard on her. It seems you two have some nice things between you (if only in private) but you have them and that’s a good thing!
Had the same issue with my lady and it was hard. She assured me she loved me and just needed time. 3 years later we are still together and my lady and I have lots of PDA now! In fact, she’s the one who’s PDA crazy.
So, give it space and time to happen…. it will if it’s meant to.