I Don’t Know What To Do
I have a “girlfriend”. We’ve been on and off for 2 years now and recently I’ve tried breaking up with her but it doesn’t stick because I love her, I just don’t see us working out. All of a sudden she has a crush on my best friends ex; my best friend and her ex are talking, might get back together because the ex wants to. My girlfriend has an uber crush on her and said that she wouldn’t talk to my best friend’s ex if it meant we could be together. And then out of nowhere I get on my MySpace and her status says “it’s you” and mood: lusted and loved… and I’m like WTF… I didn’t make her feel that way today… and then I read my best friend’s ex’s status that says… “Is it me?” so I get on my “girlfriend’s” page and notice she has hidden her friend’s page. So I know my way around MySpace and see that she has added her back after she said she wouldn’t, she was going to hide it from me. I feel betrayed and hurt and I thought we were happy, but she just cant stop talking with this girl, this girl tends to be very fake sexual with her friends, and my “girlfriend” is needy and I think has mistaken it for something more. I don’t know what to do.
She says she wants to be with me but needs everyday happiness (I don’t get to see her because he mother HATES ME and gays). But my best friend’s ex wants to get back with my best friend so it’s not the kind of happiness I have given her.
Should I keep trying and try to make us work? Or give up and move on? The moving on part seems harder. :/
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I think the fact that you don’t see it working out is a big hint. If you’ve found that you’ve already been betrayed (and the fact that your “girlfriend” has admitted to you that she has a major crush on someone and seems to be acting on it!), I’d say you should break it off and move on. On-again, off-again relationships are really just code for “there’s chemistry, but no commitment”, and if you’re looking for a long term partner rather than a casual hook-up partner, I’d say you really do need to move on. Granted, it’ll be tough, but it’ll be better for you in the long run.