Comments on: I Need Help http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/17/i-need-help/ Ask A Sister, We Always Answer Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:06:22 +0000 hourly 1 By: helpmetoo http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/17/i-need-help/comment-page-1/#comment-37880 helpmetoo Sat, 01 Aug 2009 21:21:04 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=1538#comment-37880 same here. you are def. not alone. same here. you are def. not alone.

]]> By: tangenella http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/17/i-need-help/comment-page-1/#comment-37253 tangenella Wed, 01 Jul 2009 05:49:18 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=1538#comment-37253 Hey helpme, I am also a 20 yr old college student pondering the possibility that I am bisexual/gay. I can tell you in my attempts at discovering myself that experimenting with someone that you're not really interested in will probably make you even more confused. I made the mistake of sleeping with a girl that I wasn't really attracted to, and I was unfulfilled. Unless you actually like the person, you won't enjoy the physical part, whether the person is a man or a woman. If you think that you might like him, maybe go on a few dates with him and see if there is chemistry. If not, ask out some women! Remember, you don't have to have a full-on relationship to explore your feelings. Hope this helps, and remember, you are not alone! I'll be awkwardly exploring my sexuality too. Hey helpme,
I am also a 20 yr old college student pondering the possibility that I am bisexual/gay. I can tell you in my attempts at discovering myself that experimenting with someone that you’re not really interested in will probably make you even more confused. I made the mistake of sleeping with a girl that I wasn’t really attracted to, and I was unfulfilled. Unless you actually like the person, you won’t enjoy the physical part, whether the person is a man or a woman. If you think that you might like him, maybe go on a few dates with him and see if there is chemistry. If not, ask out some women! Remember, you don’t have to have a full-on relationship to explore your feelings. Hope this helps, and remember, you are not alone! I’ll be awkwardly exploring my sexuality too.

]]> By: gloccamorra http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/17/i-need-help/comment-page-1/#comment-37055 gloccamorra Sat, 20 Jun 2009 12:36:38 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=1538#comment-37055 About the guy who's interested in you- I would say don't just experiment with someone who doesn't really mean something to you, just to find answers. The answers will come, just give yourself some time. Other than that, you seem to be attracted to both men and women so I would just stop thinking about gender and enjoy your crushes and do what feels right. Sorry I'm not so great at advice- I just figured I throw my 2 cents in. Good luck with everything! About the guy who’s interested in you- I would say don’t just experiment with someone who doesn’t really mean something to you, just to find answers. The answers will come, just give yourself some time.

Other than that, you seem to be attracted to both men and women so I would just stop thinking about gender and enjoy your crushes and do what feels right.

Sorry I’m not so great at advice- I just figured I throw my 2 cents in.

Good luck with everything!

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