I am ready but don’t know where to begin
So, I’ve been attracted to both boys and girls for as long as I can remember. My long-term boyfriend and I recently broke up. I am tired of boys and I am ready to devote all my sexual energy to girls.
But I have never had any experiences with another girl and I just do not know how to initiate them. I am willing to try something casual at a party or go on a date. I just do not know how to tell if a girl is interested in me. I go to ASU so there are parties all the time. Is there an easy way to figure out if a girl is interested in me, how can I approach her, and how can I ask her out or take her to some dark corner?
I don’t mean to be a user but honestly I just want something casual for now because I’ve been in a relationship for a looong time.
As a side note I am pretty girly and in interested in another girly girl. I want to pull on long silky hair and caress some curves!
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It’s too difficult to tell who’s who at college parties, unless the softball team is hosting one. Your best bet, if you want something casual, is to hit up a local gay bar. I’m sure there are a number in the Phoenix area to choose from, though I don’t know any personally.
As for the approach, do what you do best. If that’s drinking, buy your target a drink. If it’s dancing, ask her to the floor. The girls who are looking for hook-ups are pretty obvious and will probably spot you before you spot them (they are trained on the prowl). Regardless of how you meet, be sure this fling is fully aware of your intentions. Some girls are looking for more than one-nighters, so communicate to ensure there aren’t any hurt feelings.
A side note: if you’ve never been with another woman, be ready for a totally new/interesting/exciting/perhaps more emotional experience. Don’t fall too hard too fast. It happens, even when you’re just looking for something casual.
Good Luck
Girl I have been wanting to do the same thing now for about 2 years. But all the girls I have come across are not my type.. I like feminine girls, and I am feminine myself.. But apperantly we are a rare kind! So if u aren’t picky, or u don’t care what the other person looks like, going to a bar should do it. But as the above person warned, it is very easy to fall for someone so watch out!
How about just going up to a girl who you’re attracted to and announce that you’re a bi-girl or lesbian looking for some love? That might just work. I would figure that some girls would keep away from you while others might smile and take you up on your offer. It might also help if you throw in a nice touch or two, like brush up against them, stroke their arm or hand, or even just grab their butt.
If all else fails, go to a strip joint for a lap dance. Your odds of finding a bi or lesbian girl there are greatly improved, and girls will like you more once they find out that you’re there to find love and not to compete for money against them. Some of them will even give you tips on romancing women, but I think you can figure that out with time. But just be careful too. Men sometimes get angry if the girls are showing other girls more attention. Thank god for bouncers.