Complicated Situation!
Me and my friend S. hang out a lot and she has a boyfriend and all, and when we go to the school dances me and her and my other friend D. always dance really close and perverted. So one day while we were going off to our next class S. gave me a kiss (on the cheek) and then said goodbye.
Then at lunch she came up to me and said we should be girlfriends for a day (and she sounded playful but like she meant it) so I said yes and she kissed me on the cheek and I kissed her and we just walked around the whole day either holding hands or having our arms around each other.
Then the next day she said we should go out for a week and then break up but the thing is I am starting to have a crush on her and she said she might be bi so I am really confused by it all because nobody in the school knows I’m am lesbian and I don’t love her but I do really like her so what should in do? Should I try to go out with her or leave it alone and do you think she even likes me?
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I don’t read anything that sounds like either one of you is unhappy...
Does S know you’re a lesbian? If she’s behaving this way and wants to be your girlfriend for a week, then I think that’s your cue to have some fun with her. Even if you don’t love her, it’ll give you some practice once you find a girl who you’re madly in love with. Who knows? Maybe she’ll break up with her boyfriend and be the one for you. Just relax and have fun with it!
Go for it, but be careful. Don’t invest so much of yourself that you are completely heartbroken if it doesn’t work out–but don’t have so little faith in her that if something does work, you’re too bitter to take it seriously.
You know S. better than we do, so you’ll know her reactions better–the best advice is just to take it slowly, but not to avoid it completely. It could be wonderful.
~Trish
thank you guys for the advise it has been past a week and we “broke up” but she still kisses me and gives me lots of hug and everything so i am just going a long with it all and hoping for the best