Should I Tell My Friend
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Hey! What’s up? Ok so I am in middle school and I have this one friend. She and I are very close and I love her to death. Well at our school there’s this crazy little thing we do, we all pretend to be lesbians and have our “girlfriends”. Well me and my fake girlfriend used to not be so close, not I don’t think we could be closer! She is my everything! I can’t picture myself without her! But for our little fake relationships, we’ll go around hugging holding hands, slapping each other’s ass and I remember for her birthday I went to her house for the night, she was all on me and wouldn’t stop hugging me or grabbing my butt.
Wel,l my friend is supposedly as straight as can be. I’m not buying it though. I mean she says she loves me and wants to be with me all the time, she is constantly telling me how sexy or beautiful or hot I am or how much she loves me. So over the time her and I have been friends, I find myself falling for her. I don’t know what to do, I want to tell her that I’m bi, but I’m afraid if I do it could ruin everything and make things totally awkward or even worse, she tells someone. I have no clue what to do. I can’t figure her out. I have even dropped hints about my sexuality; she apparently hasn’t picked up on them. Im at a loss of what to do!
Please help me!!!! I need good advice!
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alright so this is really wierd but the same thing is happening to me. i go to lake intermediate middle school and my friend said “lets be girlfieds for a day” so i just went along with it. and you story is so similar i got scared that it might have been my friend untill i heard the part about her birthday. i would say she does like you because she is getting way to into it to were it is borderlineing a crush or love. i don’t know what i would do as to wether to tell her or not because i am still having that probalem but i wish you luck
Its nice to know that someone gets it! we should talk. my email is torigoodman12@yahoo.com
Oh wow, i went though this at one point. In seventh grade, actually. I had a group of friends and we’d pretend to date, until i accidentally fell so deeply in what i thought was love. What happened to me is that i eventually overstepped my bounds and confessed to her, and she never talked to me again. I was heartbroken, but I’m much more than over it by now (it’s been years).
What i think i should say to you is this; Pretend relationships almost never end well. Things should always be laid out from the beginning about what means what.
But for you, i suppose this advice is a moot point, because you are beyond this point. Now, i can not tell you whether she’ll do the same thing as mine did, but i think you should talk to her and just tell her whats going on. If she never knows, then nothing will happen. You get rejected or not, it’s better than staying in your frozen position, I’d say. If she’s just pretending, as she says, then you shouldn’t even be wasting your time and energy slowly falling for her when it means nothing to her.
Wish you the best of luck, and I’m very empathetic towards the situation you are in.
i also have the same prob but i want to come out with the truth but i cant.
ive wanted to tell my best friend for years but i just cant bring myself to do it, and i have grown attracted to her.
you tell people in your own tine girl. x
im in a bit of a prob 2 hun i want to tell my closest friend im a les but im scared of wat she will say or wether she will tell the whole school!
This is what i would do i would go up to that friend and tell her if we could talk in private and i would play 21 questions wit her and i would ask her if she bi or if she like me srry that’s all i got to say cause it works when i do that