Comments on: Should I Tell My Friend http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/11/26/should-i-tell-my-friend/ Ask A Sister, We Always Answer Tue, 16 Mar 2010 22:43:28 +0000 hourly 1 By: dianne http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/11/26/should-i-tell-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-43095 dianne Sun, 28 Feb 2010 19:51:50 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=2409#comment-43095 im in a bit of a prob 2 hun i want to tell my closest friend im a les but im scared of wat she will say or wether she will tell the whole school! im in a bit of a prob 2 hun i want to tell my closest friend im a les but im scared of wat she will say or wether she will tell the whole school!

]]> By: ashley http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/11/26/should-i-tell-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-43089 ashley Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:23:13 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=2409#comment-43089 i also have the same prob but i want to come out with the truth but i cant. ive wanted to tell my best friend for years but i just cant bring myself to do it, and i have grown attracted to her. you tell people in your own tine girl. x i also have the same prob but i want to come out with the truth but i cant.

ive wanted to tell my best friend for years but i just cant bring myself to do it, and i have grown attracted to her.

you tell people in your own tine girl. x

]]> By: Chikasa http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/11/26/should-i-tell-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-41791 Chikasa Tue, 15 Dec 2009 23:02:30 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=2409#comment-41791 Oh wow, i went though this at one point. In seventh grade, actually. I had a group of friends and we'd pretend to date, until i accidentally fell so deeply in what i thought was love. What happened to me is that i eventually overstepped my bounds and confessed to her, and she never talked to me again. I was heartbroken, but I'm much more than over it by now (it's been years). What i think i should say to you is this; Pretend relationships almost never end well. Things should always be laid out from the beginning about what means what. But for you, i suppose this advice is a moot point, because you are beyond this point. Now, i can not tell you whether she'll do the same thing as mine did, but i think you should talk to her and just tell her whats going on. If she never knows, then nothing will happen. You get rejected or not, it's better than staying in your frozen position, I'd say. If she's just pretending, as she says, then you shouldn't even be wasting your time and energy slowly falling for her when it means nothing to her. Wish you the best of luck, and I'm very empathetic towards the situation you are in. :) Oh wow, i went though this at one point. In seventh grade, actually. I had a group of friends and we’d pretend to date, until i accidentally fell so deeply in what i thought was love. What happened to me is that i eventually overstepped my bounds and confessed to her, and she never talked to me again. I was heartbroken, but I’m much more than over it by now (it’s been years).

What i think i should say to you is this; Pretend relationships almost never end well. Things should always be laid out from the beginning about what means what.

But for you, i suppose this advice is a moot point, because you are beyond this point. Now, i can not tell you whether she’ll do the same thing as mine did, but i think you should talk to her and just tell her whats going on. If she never knows, then nothing will happen. You get rejected or not, it’s better than staying in your frozen position, I’d say. If she’s just pretending, as she says, then you shouldn’t even be wasting your time and energy slowly falling for her when it means nothing to her.

Wish you the best of luck, and I’m very empathetic towards the situation you are in. :)

]]> By: Tori Goodman http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/11/26/should-i-tell-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-41774 Tori Goodman Sun, 13 Dec 2009 09:40:09 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=2409#comment-41774 Its nice to know that someone gets it! we should talk. my email is torigoodman12@yahoo.com Its nice to know that someone gets it! we should talk. my email is torigoodman12@yahoo.com

]]> By: emily eggleston http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/11/26/should-i-tell-my-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-41273 emily eggleston Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:25:57 +0000 http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=2409#comment-41273 alright so this is really wierd but the same thing is happening to me. i go to lake intermediate middle school and my friend said "lets be girlfieds for a day" so i just went along with it. and you story is so similar i got scared that it might have been my friend untill i heard the part about her birthday. i would say she does like you because she is getting way to into it to were it is borderlineing a crush or love. i don't know what i would do as to wether to tell her or not because i am still having that probalem but i wish you luck alright so this is really wierd but the same thing is happening to me. i go to lake intermediate middle school and my friend said “lets be girlfieds for a day” so i just went along with it. and you story is so similar i got scared that it might have been my friend untill i heard the part about her birthday. i would say she does like you because she is getting way to into it to were it is borderlineing a crush or love. i don’t know what i would do as to wether to tell her or not because i am still having that probalem but i wish you luck

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