Female, 18.
I’m kind of new to this and I don’t really know what to say. I guess what I really want is someone to talk to who could understand what I’m going through. I don’t feel comfortable to talk about this with my friends. Though I know they will love me no matter what. I know they won’t truly understand. I’m not looking for anything “sexual” I guess. Just a person to talk to. I won’t say I’m confused. I know how I feel and that it’s completely normal. But with no one to talk about it with it just gets to me more than it should. So yeah to “sum up” I guess I’m just asking for someone who wouldn’t mind “chatting” with me sometime. God that sounds depressing but yeah. – ^_^ Post your AIM or email.
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I don’t read anything that sounds like either one of you is unhappy...
Same here wish having someone to talk to about these things. So yeah if you want to talk email me at ramirez.r2007@yahoo.com
I totally smell what you’re stepping in =D
if either you want to, you can e-mail me at bergbgs@gmail.com
It’s best not to leave it unspoken. If want someone to talk to, AikiKris10 is my AIM sn.
I am 18, sometimes I get confused that I do not know why i am sad..but then other times I am so happy and I do know what makes me happy. It is hard feeling frustrated and it will end up bringing you down. My friends know what I get up to and they love me for me..but I know that they think it is a phase and believe me it is quite awkward. They try to understand and it is so funny because sometimes I don’t understand myself.
hehe everything will be ok don’t worry.
aim: kibbex01 im me if you wanna talk.
Female, 22.
I usually write my thoughts in a journal when I have time … It helps to “get it out” even if just on paper, and gives you a new perspective to come at things with. Drop me an email anytime too k4len4@gmail.com I’d love to chat
You should totally IM me..
My aim is (mytummywentRAWR) emails suck and annoy me >_< lol, don't feel shy to IM me I don't bite:] and I love meeting new people and and and! I give wonderful advice:]x3.
hey cutie. i’m 18 and i just came out in August. Email me if you wanna talk. supportlove2397@aol.com
if you wanna chat
i’m up for the same thing.
if you wanna chat just e-mail me, i’m up for the same thing
slovedance21@aim.com i’m up for the same thing hun so e-mail me if you want to
y’all worry me posting all your emails online. I hope everyone is using good internet safety practices! Remember to be alert, be safe, keep good personal boundaries!
BBR if you are looking to talk to folks in person, you may want to look for local LGBT groups. If there is a college campus near you they may have a student group with young people who meet up regularly. This is a way to use your internet to really get squared away in community. I really do think it’s a good idea for everyone to get hooked up with a local LGBT community of some kind. Takes more effort than emailing someone online but it is soooooo worth it to have actual people in your area to talk with in person when things come up.
Another thing to say about talking with your friends. If it is someone who truly loves you no matter what, I think them not ‘truly’ understanding doesn’t need to be a huge barrier to talking. My best friend has no personal insight into the gender stuff I am going through right now, but she really loves me. I find that talking to her about it and trying to help her understand, helps me understand myself. And helps us both grow as people as we make sense of the confusing things that happen in this world. Sometimes from the belief that people “won’t understand” we can cut ourselves off from real sources of love and support that are already around us in life.
I hope you will try talking to someone in your life who you trust. You live your life in the world not on the web. This site helps all of us else we wouldn’t be here. We also need to keep the people we love in the loop on what we are going through. Otherwise you are not really being a good friend to them because if they love you then they want to know about your experiences and try to understand as best they can.
arugula rose- do you have a fan club?..and if so, where do I sign up? Thank you for your posts; regardless of the topic at hand, I always learn something from your insight.
I just wanted to say thank you for all who responded. And a special thanks to Arugula Rose who made a very good point. I never thought about it that way.
Again thank you.
-^_^
Aww thanks NikkiL. And BBR. I learn so much on this site too. Mostly I just have so much tenderness and admiration for all of us trying to stay sane in this world that is so tough sometimes. We’re all pretty brave you know?
Hey I’m pretty much in the exact situation and though I know it would be awesome for you and me for that matter to tell our friends and family, however, I also know how hard it is to do that. A few of my closest friends know and I’m pretty sure my mom might think it lol I’m just not ready to come out and say it. My email is mrsoccer27@comcast.net. I would love to see someone elses point of view if you ever want to contact me. Thanks!
I haven’t come out and am just realizing I am gay. People who are going through and have gone through this are exactly who I think I need to be talking to right now. danicadelanie@yahoo.com is my email address…
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