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So I am not out. I’ve posted quite a few things here (namely two posts about your favorite (celebrity) girl crushes that have been INCREDIBLY well-received–a million thanks, girls!), but I’m not out, in a relationship, or anything of the sort. But I do have a question regarding my future relationship(s) that haunts me incessantly, and that no one can seem to answer: WHERE are all the femme lesbians?!?!!? SeRiOuSlY?!?!?!?!
Okay, I’m kind of kidding. Kind of. The thing is, I just need confirmation that there are other femme-chicks-who-like-chicks out there! See, I know for sure I’m lesbian, and am as feminine as you can get (save for my obsession with antique cars). And I LOVE being a woman; I never could or would pull off the plaid-and-cargo pants look. All the lesbians I know are either butch or sort of gender-queer (they dress mainly in guys’ styles, but like getting dressed up). Now, I’m not saying I’ll be looking for a girlfriend or wife based exclusively on what she WEARS, but I am really, really, REALLY attracted to straight girls because they radiate femininity, mostly through their appearance! I am a girly girl who likes girly girls. Not prissy, but beautiful, soft, truly feminine gals. And I am beginning to think it’s gonna be a hell of a time trying to find gay girls when I’m looking for ones that look straight…(oy, did that even make sense?)
So just give me hope, ladies: girly-girls, give a shout-out, advice on finding other femmes, anything you’ve got!
I love you ALL.