I’m in love with my maths teacher
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Hi guys, I’ll give u a quick feedback bout me, I’m 14, I love girls I want a girlfriend but not quite ready for one cuz I have exams and I’m quite busy studying but it almost finish though, my Math teacher is really cute and I fell in love with her since in January but my feelings by then was not so strong but now it is.
My best friends know that I’m bi, I like her and I really want to be with her but she’s like way older than me by far and I know its not gonna happen so too bad for me.
So school is finishing and I’ll miss her real bad but I want to ask you all something so please help me cuz I really don’t know what to do.
This year is very complicated because everyone is splitting up and going to different schools and I don’t want to go, I wanna stay because of her ok, I want to tell her that I’m gay and I have a crush on her but I’m scared and I know it’s way wrong to do that and when I tell my friends I wanna do that they’ll be like well, she’ll be like “she will runaway” (lol) cuz I do picture it happening so it kinds of hold me back, so I’m planning to write her a letter and tell her how I feel about her.
But before I do that if I’m staying in school cuz I have 2 more years to finish secondary school I’ll plan to tell her 2 years from now, yeah that’s how it might have to be.
So can anyone please help me, tell me what to do if I’m staying wait for the 2 years or if I’m leaving this month tell her.
Thanks everyone for reading this I’m not good at writing long essays so I apologize for my bad writing, and comments will be greatly appreciated.
I know I will not get through being with her but I just want her to know that I like her.




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Hey hon
I know it’s crazy hard when you really like someone to try and not act on your feelings, but I really think you’re going to have to. Are you really sure this isn’t just a crush?
What is your relationship like with your teacher? do you talk to her a lot, or have your feelings developed more from afar? I really feel that writing her a letter isn’t the best way to approach the situation, there are a lot of complications when it comes to Teacher- Student relationships, and this is without even taking into account that you’re under 16. If you have a good relationship with her, then I think you should try your hardest to respect what you already have, respect the boundaries.
I think you should hold hard for a while, and yes, maybe if after your last 2 years of secondary school your feelings are still as strong, then you can consider re-adressing the situation.
I wish I could give you advice and sing all the praises of a ‘Happily Ever After’ but I honestly think you’re only going to end up getting hurt. Sorry If this hasn’t been very helpful, I really hope things get easier for you,
Best of luck to you,
B
You are 14 years old. It is inappropriate for you to tell or write to a teacher or any adult saying you are crushing on her or him. You like girls but out of all the girls you know – that you go to school with, not one of them interest you? If you care about the teacher leave her alone. No responsible adult wants to receive a letter or be told by a kid that they are crushing on them. In situations like this, you admire from afar but don’t cross boundaries. Kids don’t tell their adult neighbors or friends of their parents that they have a crush on them. That’s creepy.
i am 14 too and i have had a crush on this girl for ages and now it hasn’t turned out so good. just don’t do anything that will embarras you or something that will turn into rumours because it will just turn into a big mess and it is VERY hard to sort out.
Good Luck
Hello.. I will give u my piont of view.. U are 14 yrs old I think that u have much to live still and that u have to get ur education and live a normal teenage life dont worry about these feelings u are getting crushes are part of living..We have all had them. But I dont think u should tell youre teacher.I think that will make her feel not confortable..And u also ..just admiral her for who she is ur teacher…U can see her for two more years like u said. I know its really hard u might feel that u love her BUT dont let ur head play mind games on u..Just keep going forward with ur goels that u have set to yourself..And when the time and u are a bit older all will fall in place just dont rush ur life..But allways be true to ur heart ..and love ur family, friends, but love yourself first.Being gay is a hard lifestyle its not what alot of people think or make it seem like..EDUCATION FIRST and love will maybe hit u in college..or u might meet ur betterhalf in gradschool…be safe
Softball is right. Love yourself first. Get to know who you are. You are bi and you seem very okay with who you are. That’s good because knowing and accepting yourself is very important no matter sexuality. Being gay is not a “hard lifestyle”. As with most things, it is other people who makes things difficult by being nasty and unaccepting of others who are not like them. If you are true to yourself you can deal with crap from others who are judgemental.
hey girls,thanks alot for your comments its great and according to softball it true i will live my teenage life,thanks alot u all i’ll follow your advice, love yah
hey salty fer real thats creepy, dam wat d hell i was thinking ‘shit’,thanks oh and those girls in my school not hot not even 1 and i’m not interested in any n almost all of them like rell manly and always wanting to fight so they’re not my type
hey salty fer real that is really creepy damn wat the hell i was thinking ‘shit’thanks,oh and not one girl interest me cuz they’re not hot,preety or girly,they’re really manly(boyish) and always wants to fight not wit me but likes rell confusion and they’re not like ordinary girls,any ways thanks again all of u i really appreciate ur comments n thoughts.
Many years ago, in junior high, I had a slight crush on my gym teacher. She was cute. She got married and went away. What you feel is what you feel but sometimes it is best to not let it overwhelm you. It’s time to move on to the next school and maybe there will be a girl or two or a boy that you will like.
yea fer real thanks,:D
You probably think you are in love with your Math teacher because you feel something for her that you’ve never felt for anyone before. You know like the butterflies in the stomach, the nervousness, and the admiration. I fell in love with another girl but there is a 13 year age difference between the 2 of us. She expressed her attraction to me too but it hurts because I feel like we can never be together because of our age difference. Sometimes you can’t control how you feel. It’s been 9 mos for me now and I’m still trying to get over her and move on with my life. It’s just hard because I haven’t met anyone else that I’ve had these strong of feelings for yet. I totally know where you are coming from and I really hope you find a way to move on. I know its hard when you have a crush on someone because sometimes…
hey vegasgirl93 u totally understand me,i kno it’s also hard to move on but i hav to, thanks for understanding me
Hey Angel. I also understand why you feel the need to write your teacher the letter. You probably have these feelings inside that make you feel so helpless, therefore you want to find a way to express them… hoping it will make you feel free from these intense emotions. I think its because you are confused about what you are feeling and you don’t know how to deal with those feelings. That’s exactly the situation that I’m in. I think right now you are trying to figure out who you are and why you feel the things that you do. Lately I’ve been seeing a therapist because I just didn’t know how to handle my emotions anymore. I think you just need people to talk to to help sort things out…
vegasgirl, thanks alot its a pleasure though,but i’m staying in school for next 2 years gosh ‘y’ i wanted to leave though but i guess i’m staying and will be seeing her everyday now.
Hey, I am eighteen and I had my first girlfriend at your age but nothing really happend till I was the age of sixteen but you should try and flirt with her and try to touch her pussy, you might think this is crazy but I’ve been through it all. It’s magical!
i would love to flirt with her but thats just a little too far remember she’s a teacher so,to do that it will make things worse i guess.(lol) ‘touch her pussy’ i’d love to
Sweetheart, I’ve never related more. I’m actually fourteen as well, and I’m physically and emotionally in love with a woman that is twenty two, eight years older than me. Now, as much as I love her, because she’s the main priority to me nowadays, her happiness is the main goal to me, we are good friends, but I know that’s what we will always be.
Think of it this way, in my mind, you only love someone if they come first, not us.
I’m a selfish girl, I gave up my feelings for the woman I’m in love with.
ur lucky ur good frenz with her. u get to see or talk to her all the time?…yeppi for u, i wish my teacher and i were like that.if someone, well my frenz and i somtimes ask her bout her personal business like age,were ur living hw old r u like that she’ll be like “thats my business” .so its really hard but i’m a bit over her kind of :/
Heyyy (:
I know exactly what u’re going through u_u
Actually i found this website cause i googled something like this lol
Listen, u’re 14 and it’s ok, when i was ur age (this sounds like i’m 80) i thought i liked everyone, the crazy thing is that my friends used to call me (still do) “teachers lover” cause of this.
I bet u’ll forget about the whole thing and will laugh in 2 years from now. I got crazyyy about my maths teacher by that time but i was 14, she was 28 and of course there was nothing to do there LOL. Sometimes i see her pass and say hi to each other, nothing more tho.
I always like either older or straight girls, such a curseee and now, now i’m totally in love with my maths teacher. She must be 3 years older (i’m 18) and although she looks pretty gay, appears like “Mrs” in my college website!. Anyway, she’s nothing more than an advanced student in my career who got very good marks on that class and helps others, still a teacher tho and i’m totally aware of that, i can’t help staring at her all the time and the Mrs thing is driving me nuts!. I must accept the fact that she’ll never look at me and move on.
The thing is that u should do what u want to, i mean, don’t let love hold u back cause u’re not gonna get anything but rejection. I’m not being rude or anything, just telling the truth from my own experience. I’m sure u’ll find a thousand other people to be with and guess what? i hate maths as much as u do or more! (that’s why i’m studying biology =D). Go for ur studies, friends and fun but not for someone u know what the answer will be. If u really want to tell her and feel like u need to, then go and do it!, this is about who’s happy not brave.
See i write too much, u don’t even have to care about ur writing when i’m from a non-english speaking country and dare to type such a long text (:
Love is soo difficult, but in our worlds it gets even worse.
(:
Thanks for sharing!
hey shawn,sup!tnx for ur thoughts u kno we’re kind of like the same u kno like u like older girls and straight i’m pretty much the same
jus sayin,anyways and seriously theres notn to do when ur 14 so ah guess when i reach your age i mite be the same way
.u hate maths and i like maths but she’ll not be teaching me anymore so too bad for me but i’ll tell her i like her but not now next 2 yrs (lol),thanks for ur advice
Heyy umm I have the same problem I really lyk my math teacher ad I think if u was to tell her that u lyk her she would probably feel weird around u. Yu should just give away signs showing that u lyk her and she will probably find out on her own
write back if u want
ur so rite, its wat i’m tryin 2 do,tnx for the advice tho….hey hw is ur situation wit your math teacher n u??
Angel, I’m almost in your situation. I am 16, fell in love at 13. I wouldn’t call myself lesbian; but straight, with an exception. I have been in love with this woman for 3, almost 4 years now. There is not a day that goes by when I don’t think of her. She hasn’t been my teacher for 2 years now but when she was my teacher we got along so well I don’t even believe it. I used to cry myself to sleep every night knowing we will never be together. I stopped crying and started appreciating the times we spent together and the fact that I still see her almost every day. But about a month ago, I found out she was leaving, to travel the world. I will never see her again. I couldn’t believe it-I still can’t. Now, once again, I cry myself to sleep and have frequent dreams about her. I have NEVER acted on these feelings and I never will, it’s just wrong. There’s only a 7 year age gap between us (or 8) and all I want is for her to be happy. What I would suggest is to just talk about it, over the internet. It’s helped me out hugely knowing there’s other people head-over-heels in love with their teachers. Goodluck, Angel
Its ok im only 13 and i am madly in love with my maths teacher who is a women she is like 30 years older then me and i sometimes just sit on my bed and dream about what could happen loads of times and well its just perfect i would love to tell her then she says to me she feels the same way, but i know that wont happen ( lol i hope it does happen ) and i just think omg she is hot i have maths with her everyday and there is a good thing i sit at the front, hehe<3 but i just wish and hope she feels the same, so lol
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I googled this problem as well and im 17. I thought i was a complete loner on this issue, but its nice too see im not alone. Its weird but im also attracted to my maths teacher!! Its been 4 years of her now and its safe to say i think i love her, but im really distancing myself from her which she is noticing but its for the best. When i think back on things ive done, i cringe!!!
Please dont write a note to her, maybe at the end of school say something if you have too but please dont do something that will get you removed from school!
Totally understand where youre all coming from!
Sweetheart, do yourself a favor and either give up or wait. Sadly, this will probably not end well. I’m in an extremely similar situation and I can’t stress enough that you must leave her alone. Not only that, don’t TELL people about this and what you;re going through. If it gets out to the teacher or another authority figure, you’re going to get in trouble and so is she. It happened to me. You don’t want that embarrassment. Stay away from her until your 18 or better yet, move on.
Im 13 and have a similar proposal. I’m bi and in love with my GIRL dance teacher at school… I kept it a secret for five months and then I came out to some friends who were pretty supportive…soooo I wrote a very sappy love note that contained every little detail on how I felt about her. Well, one day I wasn’t thinking straight and was all anxious and I slipped it her bag… Well I was so worried for like a week, and nothing happened so I forgot about it. Turns out that during that week the school was investigating who wrote it cos they thought it could possibly b a prank but….yeah. So they found out it was me by looking at the surveillance tapes and they sent he letter to my parrots and to protect her from going to jail as a pedophile, I was forced to switch out o that class, and j loc dancing too, so I was not in it only for her. So yeah, I know how you fell but trust me, you do NOT want to tell her, or specifically tell her in a note. After all that, word got around because her other classes were talking about it and now the whole anti gay school I am in knows….. Not cool, tho some pol ARE supportive…
Ok gals, here is my story, certainly to some degree had related to yours.
), and keep it to the level of getting to know each other. Take it slow first and see how it goes…
I am 21 right now and my past had bugged me to death, because I haven’t found the answer for it. I felt for a teacher like you all did and I totally agree with Shawn for the fact that you should go for it. She hasn’t been my teacher anymore, but I had her phone number, so I called her up and started the conversation as if we knew each other already (well, of course she remembered who I was). She didn’t hold back at all, if you might anticipate in your situation, because my feeling was innocent and teacher do like it when students make contact with them. Our relationship lasted for about 3 years, in the platonic sense of course; even though there were up and down. That said, you should go for it, a letter/ a call or whatever should be fine, as long as you don’t show your lusty instinct
I resent somehow those first comments, because there is nothing wrong in expressing your feeling, they sounds like warning for kids, expressing the unanimity in the taboo of teacher-student relationship… but for you, I can’t insist enough that you should hold back your physical desire (if actually having one) and just go.
On the other hand, I agree with those first comments where saying you ended up hurting yourself. Well, in a sense that if the teacher is lesbian or non homophobic, you’re safe; otherwise, you’ll feel lost. Or probably, after knowing her, you won’t find her as attractive as before and you’ll end up saving yourself.
**Nonetheless, give it a try and be thoughtful though.**
Here to Shawn as well, I think we still walk on the same track, falling for older and straight ladies. It’s weird and queer. I had started questionning many times whether I am a lesbian for the love toward women; of course, just for the feeling toward teacher/professors can’t be enough to tell. But you know, it is weird that you keep falling into the same situation over and over again. I did some kind of research, on infatuation, crush, idolation/admiration… but my question never answered…
I found funny that this topic was mostly followed up by people of the similar ages; and is thinking that this is a phase or simply a common phenomenon that none mature insight is willing to participate…which is really sad.
Hi i’m the same Meg as a few posts ago, i was the girl who wrote about being in love with my maths teacher, well i think i have got over her. I’m not sure:p But i have had some Crazy feelings from a friend in the past few months i have felt soooo close to her. i would love to make a move, it’s good because i sit next to her in a few lessons so i have tried but i am quite quiet in class and not that confident, well does anybody have any ideas of how i could tell her i REALLY REALLY REALLY like her? please, it would mean alot and boost my confidence. x Thank You B.T.W i’m 13.
thanks to vegasgirl93,
i felt exactly the same as how u felt before,It’s really hard to erase someone seem so important for you in your life. She is more than just a crush in my case… is not so easy to get over by avoiding to see her and stuff like that ?Sometimes you can’t control how you feel. for me i would think that if i don’t tell her how i felt today, anything can happen to her tomorrow what if i miss a chance? i will be regreted for the rest of my life. so i wrote her some letters… L. letters? as she said.
i wish to Move on as well. but how? the time stop right there, even though, is over 3 years but still, everytime when i see her i will get so nervous. as if like we are both back to the pass 3 years?like time stops right there. i can’t wait to see her most of the time, to see weather if she is okay in everything, i always have a feeling that i wish to do everything for her, i wish to take care of her forever? that kind ? am i normal? omg! but this is how i felt .
Is that really because I haven’t met anyone else that I’ve had these strong of feelings for yet. maybe one day when i met the right person, at the right time. Things will start to change? maybe…? but i will never forget in this part of my life i met her, and she makes me felt alive and make my life worthwhile.i am so glad that i have a chance to met her (someone special) in one of the intersection point of my life.
tq so much for your presence.
Hey! i know you posted this a long time ago, but i just wanted to share my situation, well… look, Im 15 and my teacher is 22( im the only one who knows that couse she normaly says she is 26
) i have huge feelings for her, and i know its not a crush, couse i have had crushes and it just doesnt feel like that; now, i always try to find a way to find more things about her, and i must say i have success on that, couse i found a lot of things on th internet about her, like her facebook, hi5, blogs, twitter and lastfm…haha i know it sounds like im a stalker, but im not, i just wanted to know about her, and its making me crazy couse everytime..i find more things that we have in common.
for example what i did is that we both looooooooove music, and we both play the bass, so, one time there was going to be a gig in my school, and i told her to play with me, and she was very happy for that becouse, she left the bass like.. 3 years ago becouse she was very busy, and she told me that no one had made her play before me; i started to get into things she like, for example, my teacher wants to work at the ONU some day, so i enter to de onu group in my school so we can be more related.
we also talked about what i wanted to do in the future, and i told her i wanted to go to england to finish high school, and as my language is spanish i ask her for personal classes and she agreed
:D:D:D we havent started the classes, but this really gives me hopes, couse a friend of mine kissed his personal teacher.. so WHY NOT!
i started just looking at her a lot, trying to have a ”casual meeting”, working at her class, sitting in front…. then i started to talk to her bout things i knew she would be interest in, i secretly let her messages in my book, but i didnt say it was for her,, i just let parts of songs in th back.. or in the page she was going to rate, and it actually worked a little bit couse she always was smiling when she saw that, and telling me like oh i love that song! or.. i went to that concert!
then is started o get more personal, and she was telling me things that i know nobody else in my school knows about; you have to take advantage of anything you have in common, and use it as a gun
i wanted to find out if she was gay or bi, couse she has some attitudes that make me thing she is kind of interest in me in a different way that the other students, so what i did was to make her a survey about /gay/ in general, and i told her that it was for a class, and what i found out that she was actually bi!
sometimes she stares at me a lot, i can notice she smiles from afar, i thought that i was imagining all that things,, but then my friends started to tell me that she was looking at me all the time,
one day.. we cried together becouse she was leaving the school, we talked a lot, i actually didnt go to the next class becouse i was talking to her, i gave her a ver important necklace that has a part of my first bass string and the next day she was wearing it
..after that, her boss complained about our relationship, and i noticed she walked away from me a little bit, and i thought it was the end, but one day, i was walking to a class, and other englih teacher teacher looked at me really cute and to my amazement she winked at me, then when i got into the classroom my friends ( that i actually havent told them about whats going on with my teacher) told me that my teacher gave a dirty look to the other one when she did that.
my advice to you, is to start looking for things that you have in common with her, and make her interest in you, and be sure you are not just creating a story in your head,
i say: -dont lose the hope
-wait to grow up a little bit more
-dont tell her, it would be awkward
-look at signs
and good look
The best way you can tell her how you feel is by being the best student in her class. It’s not about feeling guilty or ashamed or doing something stupid, it’s about proving to everyone (including yourself) that just because you’re Bi and 14 does not mean you can’t work faster and harder than everyone else. In fact, transferring all that beautiful erotic energy into your schoolwork might be the best thing to do. Because let’s face it. Most kids slack off in school. Bring the focus to YOU and your intelligence and that will get her to notice you and remember you long after you’re gone. Not only that, but you’ll be seen in a respectable way and you will have outshone everyone else who might also like her.
this is getting to be an old thread, but hope some of ya are still following it.
The last comment about being the best in her class is what I did when I had a crush on my junior high school English teacher. I was 14, and totally mad for her, but she was 18 years older than me. So I just worked my buns off in her class and got the highest grade. I knew it was not appropriate to say a thing to her about my feelings. So I just did what I could to get her attention, and she was so sweet to me.
I graduated 9th grade and never had her as a teacher again. I had various crushes on women throughout high school. And even had one boyfriend. but every year i sent that teacher a birthday card.
during my senior year I turned 18 in the fall, and in spring my dad died. then a month later, i received a condolence card from that teacher. she wrote and encouraged me to call her and that i could talk to her if i needed to. So i got up the courage and called her. she invited me to dinner. During that dinner, I discovered that those feelings were still there!! I could not believe it. i was totally in love with her again.
I graduated from high school, and she came to my graduation. we developed a nice friendship. Then, unbelieveably, after a very long talk one night, we embraced and then kissed. I could not believe it was happening. I was 18 and she was 37. But I was legally available and we were both consenting adults.
We kept our relationship in the closet for all the five and a half years we were together. It was not easy to do. Eventually, my heading off to college led me astray and our age gap was very challenging, as we were in two different places in life, so we ended our relationship. But: To this day, almost 30 years after that first kiss, we remain best of friends. My teacher is family to me.
So to those under 18 in love with their teachers, or older women – you just have to wait, and if something is meant to happen, it will. Odds are very slim, but one never knows. But until you’re 18, you cannot act upon any feelings toward an adult. Very likely your crush will fade and someone else will fill your heart.
Ok look im bi nd im also in love with my teacher, I know its not right to tell her bt its up to u…….i want to tell her too I really dnt care all I want is to tell her bout my true feelings bout her if u truly love someone all u want for them is to be happy even if its not with u:))
Right..
I am 14, nearly 15.
I used to be in love with my PE teacher,or so I thought.
Me and my old bestfriend would talk about it all the time. It was more of a fantasy than an actual crush.
Anyway,I was fed up of all the signs that I was convinvced I was getting so I decided to write this teacher a letter.
I ended up writing her about four or five.
Confessing my love for her,giving her clues of who it was.
She never asked me or said anything.
Until I was asked into the head mistress’s office,
And I had to move from that PE group and was told to never ‘interact’ with her again.
At the time I felt my heart was broken.
But ive moved on,and you will too:J
This is a really old thread, but I wanted to give a different perspective in case anyone is still reading.
I have been a teacher for students your age. I have had students who have blatantly had crushes on me. It would be incredibly uncomfortable if one of those students had told me about it. I think it would embarrass the student, because they would be rejected (albeit as nicely as possible, much more kindly than I am going to be here), and it would embarrass me to know how that student was thinking of me.
It is inevitable that students of any sexual orientation get crushes on their teachers. It happens. You’re human and your teacher may exemplify an ideal. But teachers, like coaches, friends parents, youth leaders, church leaders, and other adults (when you’re a minor) are off-limits.
Furthermore, teachers are adults in authority positions. They are expected, in many cultures, to be bastions of morality because they teach children. This means, of course, that NOTHING IS EVER GOING TO HAPPEN WITH YOUR TEACHER. If it does, you are being taken advantage of, even if it is something that it seems like you want. It shouldn’t happen. Because of the “authority” position of a teacher, even if you have the crush and you “initiate” (or attempt) to initiate a relationship, any teacher who reciprocates or shows interest in reciprocating is questionable. Don’t get involved.
If, when you are no longer a minor and you are no longer taught by your former teacher, you still want to pursue a relationship with your former teacher, ask them out like an adult. No notes or letters. Bringing up middle school might be weird.
I should note that my OPINIONS above are applicable to students who are minors and/or not in university/college. I feel that students in university/college are better able to assess the situation and are less likely to be taken advantage of by a teacher/professor/person of authority.
Well I got pretty much the same story.. It was the first year of high school, the first math class.. The teacher who came to teach us was surprisingly young, about 37 years old, she was funny and cute. She made good impression and well I immediately liked her- first as a teacher but then… Anyway on one lesson I moved from my usual sit closer in order to copy from the board, and then as I was copying she came closer and stood beside me and continued with the explanation of the new material lol then happened the unbelievable.. I couldn’t focus and copy at all lol I was starting at her with that reticules smile from ear to ear, I realized that I was totally in love with her.. With every glance I fell in love deeper and deeper, all the year I tried to do my best and my marks improved, any time she was looking at me I felt this amazing feeling… People I don’t think I’ll ever forget her, im still in love with her now by the way she is totally bisexual (my kind of bisexual- the more male one )… The sad thing is that this year they changed the teacher ,and my sweetheart teaches other groups… But every time I see her my heart fills with happiness and hope. I guess I will tell her what I feel because I think I have a chance.. But any way I wish everyone good luck with this cuz love has no boundaries- and btw a letter ain’t such a good idea a personal confession is way more powerful.
God, everyone here falls for a maths’s teacher? lol
. she is funny, and i try to stay after class to talk to her, but i’m afraid that she starts suspect of something.. I really want to stay close to her.. and while this year, can be and stay her friend. that would be amazing
What about the others subjects? Well, since i’m here, i can tell you my story.. I’m 20years,and recently i have a crush or i fell in love with my Law’s teacher. she is just 4 or 5 years older than me.. Do you thing, that is completely impossible this can work? God, she is so cute.. and i don’t know, if there are just jokes of my mind.. but she does eyes contact with me, several times in class.. but, unfortunately i just have her class once a week.. she is gorgeous! always smiling, telling jokes and funny examples about the subject
Guys, someone have some advise to me? all the suggestions are welcomed!!
Thanks for reading ; )
Hey,
So listen. I’m in the exact same situation and have been for the past four years. Now I’m sixteen and I’ve been able to really learn from this situation, though perhaps not the lessons I want to learn. The most important thing that I have gained from this love for my teacher (which continues to this day) is that if you really love the person, you should be willing to back off and admire from afar. If you really love them, then you should realize that it’s unfair to try to get them for yourself and that they deserve a relationship with someone of their age who can provide for them and relate to them in a way that younger people can’t. If you really love them, you should know that their job comes first and that your relationship with the teacher could potentially threaten her position at the school, not to mention ruin what was a perfectly good relationship between you two. My single piece of advice to you, advice that I myself am still having trouble following, is to treasure the moments that you share with her now and stop mourning over the fact that nothing more will happen. Live in the present and don’t worry about the future. Those who ask love to come to them will only be answered in disappointment. Sit back, enjoy what you have, and forget about the rest.
To specifically address your issue, do not write her any letter or communicate your love for her in any way. It will mess up the good relationship you have with her now and prevent any friendship in the future. Just stay cool and do not act upon your feelings, as hard as it is to do. When it does come time to leave her, you will feel like your heart has been permantally damaged, but you’ll soon come to find that time is the best medicine. I know it’s hard to believe, but it will get better. Everything will be okay. Eventually, though it seems impossible, you feelings will diminish enough to allow you to find someone else who loves you back. Just hang in tight because you’re going through a rough time. But what gets better must first get worse. Just know that after every storm is a rainbow. It’s thundering and lightning in your world now, and may continue for a while, but the bigger the storm, the brighter the rainbow. So just hold on.
Love,
In Love and Loving It
Hi,
This is the same person as before (samesituation). To add on, I fell in love with a teacher at my old school, but I had to leave her when I switched schools for high school. I thought I would never get over having to leave her, and I definitely debated staying at my old school. But, in the end, I knew that I had to what was best for me, even if it wasn’t what it seemed like I really wanted. Of course, at my new school, I’ve fallen for yet another teacher, but what you must learn to do is to not let it dominate your life. Do not base your precious life on a dream like this. Make sure you do what is best for you.
It feels like you’re alone, but you’re not. This place was wonderful because it showed me that other people are going through the same thing, something that I thought was unique to me. There’s people to talk to even when it seems like there isn’t. Just hang tight. It will all be okay in the end.
Love,
Teacher’s Pet
I agree with the beginning comment by Spohia fugandes, I don’t know if it’s love or it’s admiration or if it’s cause of something else…what i do know is that I get this feeling when im near her. I get this burning sensation when I think of her, or if im near her, and I hope that by writing here I can take some of the feelings and throw them out. I can’t tell anyone because I know it wouldn’t end well…. This is actually the first time I fell in love with a female……never mind… well the worst part of this situation is that she’s only staying for a very short time cause she’s a teacher in training and everyday I think it’s her last day for training at my school. What’s even worse is that I suck at the thing that the class is learning now… Which is basketball.. and though i try, I can’t do well. And i don’t want basketball to end cause that would mean she’ll leave. I know I might be going back and forth with the details but w.e… I suspect she’s bi or completely lesbian, cause she has that air on her. I don’t know her age but I’m guessing early 20′s. I want to tell her without telling her. But considering everything, I think that I’ll just ask for her email on the last day, I can’t think of annything better -_-’ So I won’t tell her anything, for the best, I won’t…………….. (this is refreshing but hard to say) (oh and i soemtimes feel that she DOES like me because of certain actions) >.<
are we all girls here?
hey guys im 13 nd i luv my art teacher i dnt get 2 see her much only onces twice a week but when im around her i feel so horny nd image us 2 in bed. i usally try nd get detention to stay bk nd tlk 2 her. i always stare at her private parts nd i thinks shes notice . what shall i do
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I am 16 almost 17 I’m bisexual . I’m madly in love with my Biology teacher . I’ve loved her since the day I laid eyes on her . She’s 23 but age don’t matter . I feel like she’s into me because she always gives these signals that she likes me . But my plan is to tell her how I feel on the last day of school .
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how can I cure my terrible heartache? Sorry for writing so much but I just had to give vent to my bottled up feelings.. Greetings!
Sowi hun