Married with kids and in love with another married woman

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I am 30 with three lovely kids 7 and under and I’ve been married for 8 years. I had lesbian feelings before I got married but I thought, hoped maybe, they’d go away and for the last 7 years they pretty much did. I still fancied woman on the telly and my husband knew about it and we’d make comments to each other about them. However last summer I went on a girls night out and one of my friends acted really possessive over me and got me thinking that maybe there was more to our friendship than I had thought. She is 38, married for 9 years with 2 children the same ages as my older two and in the same classes at school. She knows I used to have gay feelings but we’ve only spoken about that once and she doesn’t know how I feel about her. I’ve spent the last 6 months falling deeper and deeper in love with her and spending more and more time with her and our children who all get along. This last week things are getting harder with my husband as we seem to argue and rub each other up the wrong way. I’m also studying for a degree and I can’t concentrate on anything but her. I can’t wait to drop the kids at school so I’ll see her, I goto an exercise class with her once and sometimes twice a week.  I don’t know what to do. Do I tell her everything? Do I try and talk to my husband about it? I’m so consumed by it all I can’t think about anything else. I see her everyday, we have coffee, go for walks in the woods and I love our time together. I feel so sad when its time to go back to the real world. What do I do? Please help.

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