Can i be Man Enough for Her?
Hey girlies 
Wolftail here-
Im sixteen and have been a lesbian for four years now. Two years ago i met this girl- she blew my mind. She was two years older and had a boyfriend so i supressed my feelings in order to maintain the friendship. This summer we got really close and were chatting. I asked her if she had ever kissed a girl. She responded that she had. And had slept with a girl. And had feelings for me. Six months later and we are still going strong after she left her abuse boyfriend. The problem is, shes really straight. I know she loves me, loves sex with me, loves being with me but im so worried that im not man enough. How do i show her that im better than any man? That i can be everything she needs without a penis? Any help is appriciated. Thank you so much for reading
First off, let me say congrats on your relationship.
Lemme say that being “Straight” or “gay” isn’t really determined entirely with whether you like penis or vagina. It’s that initial attraction, that gravitation you feel toward someone. If the latter would be the case, then using a strap-on and having sex with a man would actually be close to the same thing, eh?
So, I wouldn’t worry so much about trying to ‘man-up’ to suit her taste, because, although you’re a girl, she still loves you and wants to be with you, which means you’re in the green. Although, if you’re still concerned, talk to her about it. Perhaps there might be some techniques and positions (or toys, if you’re into that kind of thing) she’d like to try with you. As long as she’s happy, then you’re doing all you need to do.
Strap on FTW
Thanks so much for the help and i really appriciate it but, i didnt necessarily mean in bed. How can i…. i guess wean… her off men in our everyday relationship, not involving sex. ( as we have no issues there
) thanks again! Any help is appriciated!
If she’s with you that means she’s not looking for a guy. She appreciates that you’re a woman and has made her choice. Is she going to start yearning for men again? Who knows? If she does, that’s not anything you can prevent. You can never replace the qualities of a man unless you transitioned. You can treat her like a queen, but it’s up to her if you’re better than any man. Whether you are dating a lesbian or bisexual, there is always a chance that person could leave you for someone else. But, with a “straight” girl, the chances are higher because they are in an exploration stage. Upon getting into the gay relationship they don’t know if they will like it or not. But it seems your girl is liking it huh? Just keep doing what you’re doing and know that if it turns out sour it’s not your fault. Good luck!
Thanks so much checkout! That helped