Does she like me?
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First of all i am new to this site and i am not really good at grammar so dont mind me 
First of all i am new to this site and i am not really good at grammar so dont mind me Ok here goes, I am 13 years old and i have met this girl 7th grade (now i am in 8th grade). I had a crush on her she is charming that every guy would want and she knows i am a lesbian but she doesnt mind, I am really close to her she tells me every secret and her feelings etc… She always look at me and smiles and she always want to see me smile which is a good thing everytime i smile she always smile back in a flirty way. Every time i talk about my ex crush she always gets a little bit jealous, she tries to hold my hand every time and i did hold her hand she always ask me if i still love my ex crush but i said no and she said you are lying and got upset or sometimes she try to ask me if i like this girl but i said no she was smiling secretly but i can see. Every time i get sick she always take cares of me but she never does this to anyone. She always thinks that she is a bad person and dont want me to hang out with her and she rather hurt her self then hurt me. She one time says she is shy to call to me after she told me that she still misses her ex boyfriend i tried to cheer up but suddenly my mom was having an argue with my dad and next 2 days we text again and my mom was arguing with my dad again she told me “go to sleep or my mom will get angry and i wont go to sleep” and “she said i am bad why do you want to play with me” i said “its my decision and if i choose to play with you and if i am wrong its my fault not yours”she still refuse to say she is bad i cheer her up and then we talk normally. She even likes to hug me and kisses on the cheek (nobody does that and she never does that to anyone) She said “I kiss you on the left cheek and kiss you on the right cheek and next time its gonna be on the center (lips) so is she into or what? oh! and everytime someone tries to hurt me she always scold at that person to not do that again and everytime someone want to kiss me she blocks it with her hands and kiss me on the cheek.
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Dear Tomboy,
OH gosh. lol. It is squeezing my heart to read about your question and the innocence and earnestness it holds. I am smiling and remembering the sweetness of that age.
To your question-darling, the best way to find out if she wants to be your girlfriend is to ask her. A lesbian’s life includes the idea that we women have to do the asking, so you might as well get started now.
You and this girl have hinted and reached out, but you need to talk it out. However, please, please, please remember that many lesbians have found ridicule when they finally got the courage to ask. They have found parents who refused to let their daughters talk to the lesbian again. They have found persecution from classmates in school. So please make sure you can trust this girl before you say anything or, more importantly, do anything.
One more thing-I am scared that she says she misses her ex boyfriend. She may be flirting with your for the attention, but it’s possible that is all it is. Try to be prepared for that.
Be sure that she’s trustworthy, and then ask.
It’s a story you will be telling your whole life, no matter how it goes-the first time you asked a girl. : )
Good luck, sweetie.
It does sound like she likes you since she kisses you and holds your hand. But it also sounds like she might be confused or scared to act on those feelings. So if you like her more than a friend you should tell her how you feel. Sometimes you have to be the first one to talk. If you don’t tell her you will be left wondering ‘what if’. And what the worst that can happen. Just be prepared if things don’t work out.
good luck
Hey I’ve been in the same situation.. With a straight girl in like 7 and 8th grade.. She most likely is experimenting with you. You are probably the only lesbian she knows and if she does know more.. You are probably the one she feels the most comfortable with. Her jealousy probably stems from the fact she wants what you have. She also may be craving attention. . Be careful not to hurt her. Do not play with her emotions .. Even though she may be playing with yours.. Stay neutral!