Confused Lesbian Lover…
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Hello my fellow lesbians!
i am a 21 year old lesbian and I am dating a 35 year old lesbian. We met at an area at our job after I turn 19. she did not look her age. She looked like she was in her mid 20′s. after we met…we couldn’t stop talking. we were on the phone all day and together at work. After a while…she started to become possessive. She did not want anyone to talk or touch me. I am not gonna lie…it was cute and sexy at first. After a year I quit my job and I stopped talking to her. the reason why I stopped talking to her was because she never had time for me. she would not accept that I broke up with her. She came to my house unannounced and was constantly calling me. I endEd up changing my number. Then after a year again. I went back to my job. i needed up talking to her again.
So as of Now….I don’t know where I stand with her. She calls me her girlfriend buts does not treat me like one. We never go out and we barley talk. We haven’t been out on any dates. She has two jobs but she finds time for god son and not me. she always say that I am cheating on her. And I am not. I have been celibate since I was 18. I save myself for her. I want her to be my first and last experience with a woman. she always want me to do things her way.
My question to you guys would be is should i leaver her alone? Should I try o work it out…again?! Or do you gave any advice or experience on this subject.
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hmmm it doesnt sound like the best relationship you could have, not healthy at all.
im gonna give you my opinion bit its only mine, you know better and you should follow both your heart and instincts.
when i was 21 i had an affair with a 35 year old woman, she was not my first tho. it was an open relationship, went cool but it seems that my age was the reason why she couldnt face me as an equal. after her i had an affair with sb my age, it was much better but i didnt feel as liberate as i was with her. i have to warn you girls our age can be a bit strict. but it is more likely that they love you as an equal and not see you as just a “little cutie”.
i tried another open relationship with another 35 year old woman and it turned out that once again she had issues with the age thing. now coming to your problem. she s possessive and has no trust in you and not taking care of you? why are you with her, only cos she’s your first? you deserve much better. this doesnt sound like a healthy relationship at all.
Its not a healthy relationship. And its going to sound like a broken record, but there really is a lot of fish in the sea. lol. so If you are not happy with her, then move on keep looking for someone who really makes you happy, loves you, and takes care of you. you never know she might even be taking advantage of you because of the age difference.
she also sounds possessive, and might not want to let you go that easy so be careful. She sounds like a stalker and if i’m rights she can get a bit violent. so if you do leave her, be smart have a plan. Also stand your ground be firm let her know you are serious.
the choice is yours to make, but i really do think you should leave her and move on.
hope this wasn’t too intense but i just want to be open and honest with you.Good luck
sorry but this sounds like the start of an abusive relationship get out while you can.. she will probably get worse too more possessive etc. stay safe sis