It’s a bit complicated but i am really lost….
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I met this Russian Girl and now i am so in love with her i don’t know what to do.
Last year i was hanging out with friends at a bar and my male friends brought his girlfriend.
Before,i want to explain that her bf also had an affair with my best friend and another girl i knew.
As soon as i start talking to his gf ,we clicked right away and she kissed me.
So she took me outside and we started hooking up.
A week past and she invited me to dinner than her house,to my surprise her bf wasn’t home and we ended up having sex.
this happened couple more times.
I started feeling really bad because i knew this secret about her bf and wasn’t being a good friend not telling her that he was making a fool out of herself,because she was hanging out with the girls he was hooking up with.
Last month 3 days before thanksgiving he didn’t come home and she started telling me that she was tired of waiting for him and that she is 25 and he is 50 that she doesn’t deserve this.
i had a couple of drinks and told her ice cold that he was cheating on her for a couple of years,as i saw the mess i was getting myself into i decided to deny and tell her it was a lie because i wanted to be with her.
she goes home and fights with her bf and now not only my best friend doesn’t want to talk to me but she has the wrong idea of me and is not talking to me.
She told me i was trying to ruin her relationship with her boyfriend. I was not looking to fucked up her relationship but was just tired of seeing her look so stupid next to him and the 2 friends she thinks she has is fucking her man.
Now i am left with this deep pain,as we saw each other every week,now she doesn’t even acknowledge me.
Her boyfriend keeps posting pics of them and the other girls together and i feel a deep whole inside of me and i miss her smile so much. 
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What should i do?
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Okay…you haven’t helped yourself by screwing her anyway. You should really have kept it all bk and waited till she was single… She’s been playing u pal. No joke this chick wants it all. I’d scarper before your rep turns to shit… The hard and honest truth.
gamergirl is right. You should be grateful that you have a chance to pull away from a messed-up situation, where everybody is cheating on everyone else and everyone is mad at everyone else. You don’t want to be in that mosh pit of ugly behavior.
That girl is not trustworth, if she does that to her BF she can do the same to you…
What everyone was is saying is true. I was in a similar situation recently and am lucky I’m out of it now. Though I will admit I sometimes wonder about her. Though I know when I waw in that situation and everyone told me that she wasn’t worth my time I didn’t listen. So with that being the case I’ll try to give you some advice with the belief that you might not take the advice that its best to get out. With the way things stand now its best to give it time and her space. I know it eats you up inside but right now you need to let her process things. Eventually things will come to light… in fact she may already know the truth deep down but lashes out at you and so easily accepted your lie because she doesn’t want to accept the truth. And if you give it time and nothing happens of it then unfortunately there isn’t much you can do and you’ll need to walk away. Its easy to get antsy but just be patient… if a month or so passes its probably best to move on.
As far as your friend goes… he put you in a bad position that made it easy to go behind his back and let you see him as the villain. But if he’s really your friend it doesn’t make it right what you did… there are better ways of going about it. But with that beind said… I know I’ve made that rationalization before and went after someones girlfriend. Inn regards to losing your friend Is he really someone you want in your life?