For some people sexuality is very fluid, meaning you can like both sexes at different points in your life. When I was growing up (a long time ago ), people didn’t talk about homosexuality, so when I was having feelings for girls, I didn’t know what to do about it.

I dated boys for a while, but I never felt like I should for them. They always just felt like friends. All of my friends were talking about love and sex and I wasn’t interested in that with boys.

You will know sooner or later. The first time I was intimate with a woman, there was no question anymore! My body didn’t respond to men, but to a woman- WHOA!

Chances are if you are questioning it, you may be bisexual, if not totally lesbian. Some people know without ever having been with the same sex. Others realize it once they experience it.

Give yourself time. You have a lot of life ahead of you, and therefore a lot of time to figure it out. Good luck!

I say just go with the flow. When the time comes you wil know! About a year ago I figured out I was lesbian. You wil just know.