confused n lost!!!!!!!!
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Hey, well im gonna try n keep this short n to the point im a 26 year old lesbian, n i recently met a bi woman that is incredible, shes never been in a relationship with a woman, only men, but she likes women… we r friends she says n thats ok i guess. but shes so sweet to me, n we can talk bout anything, but the craziest thing is that she really teases me, n it leaves me wondering what i really mean to her. i understand shes always been with men n she does have two children, n she knows i like her in fact shes told me she doesnt wanna hurt me cuz she so “damn lucky to have me in her life n she dont wanna loose me”… but if she knows i like her, n we can talk bout anything n she teases me continuosly, i mean if im wrong tell me but i think shes into me?? any advice would be awesome




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I don’t know what your friend is like but I’d like to say, be careful with ‘bi’ women who like to tease and flirt and all that but are reluctant to commit. If she’s never been with a woman before, you wouldn’t want to be her guinea pig. Sorry if I sound a bit harsh there, I’m just saying.
It’s also possible that she really doesn’t want to hold you down in a relationship ’cause she already has two kids and that’s kind of a big thing to take on.
I’ve thought of all the possible options… N I always have stayed away from bi women but she came out of nowhere, n turned my world upside down.
You didn’t sound harsh I wanted sum opinions n ill take the good with the bad, just the things we talk bout sometimes r so deep, n we really look into each others soul… I’ve noticed things bout her that not her family have noticed her or lifelong friends n the same with me, without saying anything its like she can read into my soul…. Idk I don’t push her for anything I rather keep her in my life as a friend then loose her all together, but if there’s more on her part I’d like to know… I know I’d catch her, n her two kids mean the world to me…. I know I’m getting in over my head but if she give me a chance it could be a forever thing on my part:(
Why dont you tell her how you feel, be open and honest, you 2 can talk about anything why not talk about this
I’ve hinted at it n she knows, but I guess I haven’t really approached the subject cuz I’m afraid of loosing her even as a friend :/
yeah its really hard, but big risks gives big rewaeds hey
I know they do, but I’m just too scared…. I’ve never felt this way it’s strong n deep, If I gotta decipher what I’m feeling it’s more then just lust… I know I should tell her… Just don’t know how she’ll take it….