Someone please help me; I’m so confused!

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I am in love with my best friend. I am a girl, and she is a girl. She’s a lesbian who came out to me like 6 months ago. I have been in love with her for about 3 months, and I cant snap out of it. I’ve known her for 4 years, but it’s like I’ve known her my entire life. We’ve had really deep conversations about our sexualities before, but I’ve always had to lie. Right around the time she came out to me I told her that I wasn’t really sure about my sexuality; she then proceeded to tell me that she could never see me as a lesbian. I think I’m bisexual because I’ve had crushes on guys in the past, and still find guys attractive, but not like before. Ever since she told me that she didn’t think I was a lesbian, I have been trying so hard to avoid telling her the truth, and I think that I may have inadvertently made it sound as if I was demi-sexual. If I tell her that I’m bisexual, then she’s going to ask why I feel that way or who I like, and i just have no clue how to answer that without telling her that I’m in love with her. Someone please help me… I can’t sleep, and I have exams in a week. What should i do?

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