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i’m new to this and i would like to get some advice about my relationship.
I’m 19 y.o and had my heart broken 2 times out of 3. I’ve been with 3 girls but the third one really did a number on me, since I thought she would be the one to cure my broken heart but I guess that was a downer for me.
Me and my Gf broke up for the third time a month ago and went back with each other for the third time also. the main reason we broke up is because before we made 6 months with each other she cheated ( let me add that it’s the 4th time that she cheated on me) on me with another woman for a whole month and after that month she wanted to write me a letter about it stating why she did it. and the reason is as always when we fight,” it’s because you don’t give me the loving caring affection as she showed me” .
now i for ones have had enough of her Bullsh*ts and told her it was over between us. then afterwards she came with a bunch of stories that the woman tried to hack her and some other stuff. so for the last week after breakingup with her she kept texting me stuff that i’m hartles and that she can’t believe she went out with such a prick etc etc etc.
Afterwards I blocked her. Because i wasn’t sure if she has some disorder or what not but she kept changing her way of talking, like one minute she’s all b*itchy, the other she’s accusative, feeling guilty etc etc etc.
Now after week 2 i gave her a 5th chance, and i told her literally tha this was the last chance that she won’t get any chances anymore. But after giving her that chance i felt like i couldn’t love her back as i used to and i have no atraction to her but other woman i do.
so all in all what i’m asking is should i have not given her that chance or should i just tell her flat out what i feel ?
ps : i did already told her i don’t love her as i used to and i’m not sure either if i can love her like i used to . /:
btw she’s 4 years older then me and a closet lesbi christian .