Posts by blacklily:

Any Lesbians Attracting Gay Men?

January 8th, 2009

I am a 28 year old lesbian and recently have come to terms with my sexuality.  It seems though, that many of the men who I used to date and even had short term relationships with, ended up being gay or were men who my friends would always tell me seemed gay because of their “characteristics” and such.  Have any other lesbians out there experienced this? Do we attract gay men who are still “in the closet” because of some kind of vibe we give off? Maybe the gay men sense something in us that makes us appear less “threatening” to their possible sexuality conflict? All I know is that I can count on both hands the number of men who were once interested in me that ended up eventually coming out of the closet. I will admit some of them were questionably gay in my opinion at the time but it never mattered to me because I liked them for who they were.

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