Posts by SeCrEtLiFe:
Am I Gay or Straight
August 30th, 2008This is difficult for me because I’ve never talked to anyone about being gay. I come from a 1A school where everyone knows everyone. I’ve played sports and have done well academically and have always obeyed my parents and tried to be the daughter they wanted me to be. I never dated in high school, never have I been attracted to the guys at school. But have found myself attracted to this girl even though I knew she was straight. But I’ve never had the experience with a guy to say I just don’t like guys like that. So I thought when I start college there will probably be an attracted guy there. But instead I’ve found myself attracted to this girl.
I’ve talked to her once. And really she did the talking, she asked me if I was in some of her classes and I said yeah. Then she asked me what my name was and I told her. And that was it. I was afraid to say anything else. Of course I don’t even know if she’s gay. I can’t stop thinking about her. The other day I stood in the hall next to her waiting on a class and my heart began to beat super fast. Anyways, I don’t even know how to talk to her. Because I’m quiet and kind of a shy person. And I guess it’s because she’s not someone I would hang out with. So if you could help me on this situation it would be great. So my question is what should I do about her and I can I figure myself out I mean do you think I’m gay or straight. Thank for reading this.
Should I Come Out Or Wait?
August 14th, 2008I guess this is probably asked a lot. How to come out and tell your parents, family, and friends that you’re gay? I’ve thought of many ways that I could tell them but never have had the courage to. I’ve never dated because I’m not ready for my family and friends to find out. And when they ask why I’m not dating guys I just blow it off and tell them that I’m just too busy and that school is my priority. It’s really hard though because I’m only 19 and just graduated from high school and I’ll still be living in my parents’ house when I attend college this year. So what should I do?
