Breaking Up
Friends With An Ex?
I’m having difficulty being friends with an ex, even though I would really like to be. I may have messed it up permanently earlier today. In the hope that I have not, how does one go about being friends with an ex? Have you ever successfully done it? Were there limitations or boundaries that made [...]
What Shall I Do?
I’m 17 and I had my first girl but since she was a closet one (I’m not) we couldn’t spend so much time together since she was from school and also she has a litter sister. Everything was fine but one day we went to a friends party and I saw her giving a lap [...]
Feeling Trapped
Hi, I’m new to this and not sure where to start really but here goes. I’m 26 and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years but I don’t love her and I never have. She knows but won’t admit it. I’ve treated her really badly over the years but she won’t let me leave [...]
Issues With My Bisexuality
A while ago I have decided to split from my boyfriend and move out (still looking for a house though). Partly because, although I still love him, we are not really that great as a pair, mostly though because I have started to realize that I am gay. It was a difficult realization because when [...]
My Life
Hello. I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for 7 years and it ended a month ago. She ended the relationship because (from my point of view) I can’t give her what she needs (security) because she has 4 kids and they’re growing up. And I don’t have a decent job to support her. [...]
I Loved My Best Friend!!
Hey,
Well, I don’t know where to begin… I’m 18 years old and I am a lesbian, I know that I am a lesbian very well… I am proud of who I am and what I became but there is one thing I can’t do. I can’t come out to everyone around me and tell them [...]
Should I Let Her Go?
I’m 22 now and I basically have always presumed that I was a bi or even a lesbian. I’m not out and I have no intention to do so any time soon. In fact, I’m still having a hard time to admit it to myself. Anyway, I’ve been dating a girl for a couple of [...]
Don’t We All Love Drama?
I have a bisexual girlfriend right now but I feel like were falling apart. I think she is cheating on me with a guy. I have this theroy because she actually cheated on her last boyfriend with me. Not only that but she seems to be falling away from me. We have a long distance relationship and [...]
Pregnant and Dumped
Recently I’ve gone through a pretty tough break up, and I’m finding it extremely hard to cope. This girl was my first same sex relationship, and although we weren’t together for that long, we moved extremely fast, living together pretty much straight away, and I fell for her very hard, very fast. A couple of weeks [...]
Does Age Really Matter?
I have a girlfriend and our relationship is okay, but… I’m a junior in high school and she’s 30 years old. At first I didn’t mind it. But now I think about my future and I see her there but when I think about raising my kids… she doesn’t really seem to fit there and having kids is a big [...]
I’m Also In Need Of Some Help…
I feel like I’m losing my mind. My ex (another supposed straight girl) and I were together for like a year. We had an awesome Christmas, and I thought everything was okay until New Year. She doesn’t call. And so I text, probably too much. But she would never call me back, so I started freaking out. She just flat out [...]
In Love With A “Straight” Woman (I Know, I Need My Head Examined)
Hi all. Some advice would be very greatly appreciated.
I recently came out of a relationship with a married woman. She cheated on her husband - he was cheating on her - it was a big mess. She couldn’t do it anymore though, and they worked things out. She says now they have never been so [...]
To Work It Out Or To Let Go? That Is The Question…
Sorry this is so long…Almost a year ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of eight years. She was my first real love. We were really good together - the kind of couple that finished each others sentences, and the couple that everyone thinks were made for each other. We thought other people’s relationships just [...]
Do You Get Another Chance?
Ever since my ex and I broke up for the last time, I’ve started to feel like that was my only shot at a genuine relationship. We had dated off and on since we were 17. I am now 23 and this has been my only relationship with another girl. When we first got together my family [...]
How Long Does It Take to Let Go
Okay, my “story” is just beginning and it would take way too long to go into details, but the gist is: how long does it take to let go of past relationships? A few months ago, I ended a long relationship with a man. I ended it for many reasons; one of course was my [...]






