Queer

Mixed Signals

Last year wasn’t an easy year for me. I was going through a phase (growing pains). I was paranoid and I was realizing that I had a crush on someone of the same sex. There was a lot running through my mind. Let’s just say last year hit me hard. So a friend of mine [...]

Law of Attraction and LGBTQ Liberation

I was a social worker for 25+ years before becoming a Law of Attraction Coach. During this time, I inspired and supported disenfranchised youth, high school drop outs, homeless/street youth, LGBT elders and the general LGBT community to have the life they desire.  A very simplified version of my thinking during my social work years was: [...]

Coming Out as a Posh Bisexual

I’m so glad I’ve found this forum.
I am a 22-year-old college senior caught up in exams and graduation rites and moving forward into the world; I have neither the time nor the energy for severe emotional upheaval. Nevertheless, it is now, when I really ought to be studying for honours, that I find myself unable [...]

This Seems To Be A Common Question Around Here…

I can’t seem to stop thinking about this.
I’ve been with my boyfriend since I was 16… and only one other guy right before that. I’ve never felt that “turned on” by guys I guess, I mean… I can, and have but not because they were a guy. I think it was because well, when I [...]

Bisexual Or Just Weird?

Ok. Where to begin?
Alright. I met this guy (he’s about a year older than me) at my karate school (where I teach), and we totally hit it off. Later on he told me he was attracted to me and that he liked me a lot. I felt some attraction for him as well, but I wasn’t [...]

Identity Re-assessment

Right. Let’s start from the beginning. I was a pretty sexualized girl, I started to masturbate very early and it would be enough for me look at a women’s magazine with a girl in summer clothes with her breast shape showing through to get a tingly feeling around my belly (wouldn’t know what to do [...]

Inbox: Kings Village 2008

From the TLQ Inbox: 
Dear friends,
It is a great honour for us to invite you all to the KINGs Village, the first International Drag King Festival in Italy which will take place in Rome, from July 10th till July 12th 2008. KINGs Village is organized by the Kings of Rome and Di’ Gay Project, and will be [...]

Serial Monogamy/Bisexual Girlfriend

I’ve been out since the age of 17, to my parents, my friends, etc.  I fell in love with my best friend when I was 14, and she broke up with me when we were 17. She told me she was straight and didn’t love me anymore. I think this had a lasting effect on me. Years later, this same [...]

Dating a trans guy… am I still a lesbian, or bi, or what?

This is probably a really stupid question, sorry.
I’m 16, and I accepted that I was a lesbian when I was 13. I was not attracted to guys at all, and that didn’t really change until a little while ago. I met this guy, and within a week (because I’m freakishly observant or something) I thought [...]

Lesbian On The Inside

Hey there all,
I am new to this message board, and I would like to ask the opinions and advice of a few fellow lesbians. I am 21 years old, and have only been out (even to myself) for just over a year. During this time, I have been seeking to make new friends within the gay [...]

Sistahood or actually really good?

Why, as lesbians, do we like queer music/musicians?  Or, more specifically, music made by a sapphic sister.  Are we just drawn to Melissa Etheridge/Indigo Girls/Ani DiFranco/et al purely because they are lesbians or do we really like their music?
Shortly after I came out, my first real life girlfriend bought me a full set of Melissa Etheridge cds.  I presumed [...]

I’m Gay

In dire need of something to brighten up this first rainy Sunday of summer? Check the one and only real queer anthem:
Little Britain Presents: I’m Gay (mp3)
(I’m a member of a flock who prefers a bit of cock)

Attn: Everyone

I hereby decree that the use of the word “gay” or any intentional misspelling there-of (I’m talking to you, Mr. ”ghey is a different word”) as an insult, put-down, or negative modifier is utterly and completely OVER.  That’s right - I’m calling it.  Yes, it was funny for a while and I am as guilty of [...]

Gay Bands

“One of the most dangerous ways homosexuality invades family life is through popular music. Parents should keep careful watch over their children’s listening habits, especially in this Internet Age of MP3 piracy.”
This website is listing bands that can make you gay, and they’re asking for our help… let’s give them a hand, shall we?
And share please: [...]