Comments for The Lesbian Question

Comment on Help I Have No Gaydar! by Salty

Salty — Wed, 22 May 2013 12:28:47 +0000

You are 16 years old so what difference could it possibly make if your coach is not a heterosexual? She lives at home instead of living where? Oh wow, it’s a big deal to you that she apologized when she hit you with a “powerful” ball shot. Is it “illegal” for the coach to tap goalie pads with her stick or to help collect the balls? I know you are only 16 but why do you need “gaydar” for a teacher that you are crushing on? Maybe she is aware of you crushing on her so gives you a bit of attention to try to make you feel comfortable. There are girls your own age right there on the team so why focus on a teacher who is off limits to you? She is a teacher. She is an adult and you are a teen. Do you want to get her fired?

Comment on Straight male in love with a lesbian? by Ben

Ben — Wed, 22 May 2013 11:45:09 +0000

So here’s my problem:
I’m 17 and I’ve known this girl for about 6 months now, she is 17 too, we met in school on the first day and Straight off we where good friends as we shared many of the same interests and views and soon after this i started developing a little crush.
She was always very open about herself and told me she was bi-sexual. I saw a glimmer of hope for us and let myself very quickly fall in love with this wonderful girl.
Then a few months later she tells me she is completely lesbian and has a girlfriend. I was just crushed, at this point i was madly in love with this girl and just loved being around her and talking to her. I have never felt this way about another person before, I’ve had my little crushes but i have never experienced anything like this before.
Now here’s the tricky part. I’m think but am very uncertain wether or not if she likes me back, i mean we can spend all day together hanging out at the local shopping center entertaining each other, talk online all the time and we even go home from school if one of us dosen’t show up.
I really feel i should tell her how i feel as but at the same time i would hate to ruin this friendship and make things awkward between us or lose her forever.

Someone please help me!.

Comment on I’m More Into Women… But I Like A Guy by Elizabeth White

Elizabeth White — Tue, 21 May 2013 18:47:52 +0000

PRAY!

Comment on How Do Girls Have Sex With Each Other? by SierraSweet

SierraSweet — Tue, 21 May 2013 11:30:55 +0000

@ iloveher
court her just like a guy would. Do crazy things and be funny. She may find that you would be the best option for her. My friend is compleatly lesbian and she is dating guy right now. For me it really depends on the person. I just don’t care about what sex they are. Maybe, once you show her who you are, she’d be more open to trying.

Comment on HELP: Timebomb waiting to happen? by Stica

Stica — Tue, 21 May 2013 09:44:12 +0000

Hi there,

1) How do I approach the issue that obviously needs to be talked about at more length?
Just be open about it, since you have an open relationship.

2) Do I attempt to ease these needs with the use of toys during sex?
You can use a strap-on, I am a bisexual and even if it is not the same it sure helps a lot, anyway you can keep doing the same you already do and then finish it with the toy but try not to make it the center of attention.

3) Is it just a time bomb waiting to happen?
No idea, and it is hard for you to have that idea also, normally, at least for me, when I develop feelings for a girl the more I become attached to her the less I feel the need for a guy, the toy does the job since my feelings for her are enough to feel the same pleasure as I do feel with a guy.

4) Should I have even got into a relationship that appears to be so confusing?
Not much I can say here, starting a relationship with alcohol it’s not very good but oh well, there is no right way of starting a relationship, if you both enjoyed and want to stay together and discover your sexuality / feelings together don’t think to much what’s behind that Just live the moment.

Best luck!