The Lesbian Question http://www.thelesbianquestion.com Ask A Sister, We Always Answer Thu, 02 Jul 2009 12:52:54 +0000 en hourly 1 What Do Lesbians Prefer? http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/07/02/what-do-lesbians-prefer/ http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/07/02/what-do-lesbians-prefer/#comments Thu, 02 Jul 2009 12:52:54 +0000 Smurfette http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=1636 Do most lesbians prefer fingering or eating out for the “main” part of sex? Or just, what do you prefer? The reason I’m asking is because I’m curious and also I want to know because whenever I have sex with new people, I don’t know which one to do.

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I am a lesbian, I realized that when I was 15yrs old. I always attracted to women only. Now I am 30 years old and working as S/W engineer. I never came out to anyone as I live in a conservative country where this is a crime. Now my parents are forcing me to get married. I can not tell this to them, they can never accept this being so conservative… I don’t know what to do… I just feel like ending this life as I am not able to take this torture to get married to a man. They forced me to meet men to fix the proposal. I have no idea what to do.

As I love my parents I don’t want to hurt them but I can not help them in this manner too… Please advise me… I have no friends here to share this… I feel so depressed and lonely…

Rose

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]]> http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/30/help-10/feed/ 1 Wanted: Young French-Speaking Lesbians (18-30) http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/30/wanted-young-french-speaking-lesbians-18-30/ http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/2009/06/30/wanted-young-french-speaking-lesbians-18-30/#comments Tue, 30 Jun 2009 00:43:07 +0000 quetzalita http://www.thelesbianquestion.com/?p=1603 Hi Gals!

Just passing on the information:
Dominique Bourque, professor at University of Ottawa (Canada) is currently doing a research on the perception of young french-speaking lesbian or bisexual women (18-30) towards sexuality and lesbianism.

Dominique Bourque, professeure à l’Université d’Ottawa, réalise une étude sur la perception qu’ont les jeunes femmes lesbiennes ou bisexuelles francophones (18-30 ans) sur la sexualité et le lesbianisme.

Je vous invite à répondre à ce questionnaire en ligne :
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=2NkO_2fG9YmTo8fXwWMcFnnQ_3d_3d

Site sécurisé, anonymat assuré.

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She has a boyfriend that she has never seen before, but chats to him on MSN and on the phone. She knows that I am in a strong relationship but she is always there, when we shop it’s like a couple arguing over what I should buy for my house. She comes to my house every other day; she always says that we are going to have sex (sorry for the language). She walks almost naked in front of me and waits for me to look at her. The way she looks at me is not like a friend would look at you. She always buys me things, for my birthday she sold her phone to buy me trainers that I told her I liked. She told me that if I was a boy she would marry me, or if I had I penis she would sleep with me.

She always plays with my hair, but I don’t understand if I am falling for her as well? I have her picture in my phone in my room on my wall… I buy her everything she likes, I cannot say no to her… we fight and she would call me back and talk as if we never argued. She always tells me that when she was younger she used to mess around with her friends, do things like kissing and touching each other… she always holds my hands or arm when we walk…

Can someone help me, and if you wonder where my girlfriend in all this is, she is in Canada, and should be coming soon…

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