What Shall I Do?
I’m 17 and I had my first girl but since she was a closet one (I’m not) we couldn’t spend so much time together since she was from school and also she has a litter sister. Everything was fine but one day we went to a friends party and I saw her giving a lap dance to a guy she didn’t know and I was pissed (it surprised me because I’m not the jealous type) so I started drinking a lot till I couldn’t feel anything. Then the other day everyone was telling me that she also kissed the guy, so I called her and asked her. She told my it was an accident (she was sober) but the she told me she kissed him 3 times so I got pissed and called her a slut and I ended our relationship.
Later I noticed that I still had some feelings for her and I was going to forgive her because I really do love her. She told me that she could not be with me since I hurt her real bad and she could not trust me again. But the thing is I really love her and I want for us to be together. I told a friend of ours that I really loved her but he told me that she would not change and have an affair again. The thing is also that I had sex with someone else the day of the party but it was a mistake that I regret because I was drunk and not thinking straight. But the point is that I don’t know If I should insist with her to give me a second chance. Do I really love her or do I feel guilty even though she knows all about it.
Also my mom threatened me that if I were to see or be with her she will go to her house and tell her mom. Since I’m an only child I don’t know if she’s scared or something
Please help.
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You can’t make her give you a second chance. She already said no so you should respect that. Realize what you did wrong and don’t do it the next time.
You girls are so young that everything is passionate! Well, coming back really depends on both of you forgiving everything you caused each other. That is hard.
I don’t feel able to say that she will cheat again but an old proverb says: “First time I cheat on you is my fault, second is yours”.
Good luck!