Am I Gay or Straight
This is difficult for me because I’ve never talked to anyone about being gay. I come from a 1A school where everyone knows everyone. I’ve played sports and have done well academically and have always obeyed my parents and tried to be the daughter they wanted me to be. I never dated in high school, never have I been attracted to the guys at school. But have found myself attracted to this girl even though I knew she was straight. But I’ve never had the experience with a guy to say I just don’t like guys like that. So I thought when I start college there will probably be an attracted guy there. But instead I’ve found myself attracted to this girl.
I’ve talked to her once. And really she did the talking, she asked me if I was in some of her classes and I said yeah. Then she asked me what my name was and I told her. And that was it. I was afraid to say anything else. Of course I don’t even know if she’s gay. I can’t stop thinking about her. The other day I stood in the hall next to her waiting on a class and my heart began to beat super fast. Anyways, I don’t even know how to talk to her. Because I’m quiet and kind of a shy person. And I guess it’s because she’s not someone I would hang out with. So if you could help me on this situation it would be great. So my question is what should I do about her and I can I figure myself out I mean do you think I’m gay or straight. Thank for reading this.
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Well, I think first things first. Have a conversation with this girl. Talk about the classes you’re taking together, the transitions from h.s. to college, a book, movie, music… where ever the conversation takes you. Try and partner up with her for a project, study group…something. This gives you the opportunity to get to know her and see if you are attracted to her or the idea of her. As for the question of are you gay…I’m surely not the one to side one way or another. I would bet at this point you fall under the category most people on this website address as bi-curious. Don’t ever stop being open-minded to either sex and things will always work out for the best. Good luck with college!