I’m Also In Need Of Some Help…
I feel like I’m losing my mind. My ex (another supposed straight girl) and I were together for like a year. We had an awesome Christmas, and I thought everything was okay until New Year. She doesn’t call. And so I text, probably too much. But she would never call me back, so I started freaking out. She just flat out ignored me and shut me out. But here is some background info: she is a very devout Mormon, (I’m Mormon but not devout.) And she comes from a very wealthy family. She doesn’t work. Daddy pays for everything which is fine.
I love this girl. She is my soulmate. She is my life and my love. We got in a huge fight, and haven’t talked for 2 months. She broke my heart. I have tried everything that is humanly possible to get back in her good graces, even just to be friends again.
And then a ‘funny’ thing happened: her dad calls me and tells me that it was either her inheritance or me. So now I know why I have suddenly been dropped. But it hurts. More so than with the woman who I was with for 15 years. No one can tell me that we weren’t meant to be. Too much happened and too many weird things happened that I will never ever not call her my soulmate. Her dad said maybe on the other side when same gender people might be able to be married in the temple that we could be togehter.
I just don’t get it… She claims she’s straight. But I know different. And now I just found out that she is engaged. WTF? I’m lost and need some advice. Other than ‘move on’. Help…
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I sympathize with you,but you should let it go cause obviously this girl has already made her choice choosing money over you.Sorry!
There’s no advice beside “move on”. Like “Shane” said: your ex has already made her choice. Don’t waste your time, even if it hurts. And the more you try to contact her, the more you’ll push her away. Stay calm and keep looking for someone else. You’ll get over it. Just don’t be one of these silly dumbass girls who don’t get it… Greetings vom Germany - works here same way x-)
i know its not what you wanna hear. but like shane said it seems like she already made her choice. if you truly love her like you say you do. she will always be part of your heart but believe me when i tell you. you’ll be able to move on and find someone that will love you truly…
I apppreciate all the help and comments. And you are right it wasn’t what I wanted to hear… I wanted someone to say keep fighting for her if she is worth it. I guess I have just been fooling myself for the last two months. And I just people to tell me straight up and be honest. MUCH APPRECIATION… :]
You’re most welcome and please keep us posted,let us know how you’re doing.
Well im sorry to hear that and I know what you going through, but the best way to see is that she’s not worth your tears and love. she obviously didn’t value what she had with you cause if it would of been true love what she felt for you she would of put you before ANYTHING and anyone!!! Dont waiste you time there is great people out there!!!!
Well im sorry to hear that and I know what you going through, but the best way to see is that she’s not worth your tears and love. she obviously didn’t value what she had with you cause if it would of been true love what she felt for you she would of put you before ANYTHING and anyone!!! dont waiste your time there is tons of great girls out there!!!
Hi well first of all i’m sorry to hear what you’re going
through but my advice is move on I mean it’s clear
that that girl chose money over you and i honestly think thats very selfish and stupid because it sounds like ur really good person and that girl just doesn’t know what she’s doing so i think it’s best if you just move on and stop hurting and don’t worry about not finding someone you will it might take a some time but she will come…
So just wanted to say THANKS to everyone once again… Moving on really and truly sucks… I hope I don’t compare everyone to her… Time heals… Or so they say…