Confused
Hello,
I’m 25 and I have realized over the past years that I’m bi. Four years ago I fell in love with my good friend…she flirted with me, we flirted with each other… we fought… she doesn’t know I’m bi and after fours years of being in love with her I’m fed up of one day waking up and thinking “today is the day I tell her” and the next day “there is no way I can tell her I’m in love with her”. So, I’m trying to move on.
I recently met this woman who I work with. She is younger… 22. I had an immediate attraction to her. Just a crush… we became friends. We get along very well… we laugh and always have a good time. She is a flirt and also a tease. We text message each other about 40 times a day every single day without fail. Even when she is in the next room! We never talk on the phone. What’s weird is that we do all our joking around or flirting through text messaging… we act totally different when in person. We joke around about going on the “5th” floor (where all the people go to fool around). She calls me weird names like her little love monkey. We also joke around about meeting in the stairwell so she can give me hugs. From what I know she has only been with guys.
I brought up bisexuality as a joke and she responded with “ew”. She doesn’t know I’m bi. She often sends me texts saying she loves me and misses me. The problem is that we act totally different when we text then in person. She was dating a guy for a few weeks and he got jealous because she was texting me so much. When she ended it she asked me if I could make her new boyfriend jealous! She has also asked me a few times to come over and fix things around her house. I always responded with “no, ask your ex-boyfriends to do it”. I can’t read her. I can’t tell if she wants me or if she doesn’t….
Do I say something? If I do, we work together… it could be weird if she says no I’m not interested. What do I do? What do you think? I need all the advice possible please!
Thanks!
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Im soo goin through that same thing you are.. the chick im talkin to is soo confused she wont see me at all and our “friendship/relationship” is strictly text message. I dont know why ive put up with it for so long. But seeing as im still goin through it all I can really tell you is to just keep hinting around and feeling her out about it then hen enough is enough just meet her somewhere and simply tll her whats up.. honestly with all this b.s theres no ways of gettin around it its either u do or do dont kind of thing.