Confused
Ok, So I am new to this, but hope to get some input on my situation. I have always identified as a straight woman. I have recently begun to spend time with another woman who I have known as an acquaintance for some time now. We have become very close because we spend time together everyday - we walk in the evenings and then hang out at her apartment until about 11 every night. I feel like I am attracted to her. Not sure if she feels the same. Here are some reasons I think she might:
She went out of her way to try to get me to hang out with her initially. Once I did, she began to tell me that I was like a drug to her and she couldn’t get enough of me. She touches me all the time but in a way that can be interpreted as nothing also. She hates when I have my cell phone on when we hang out. She seems to be jealous of my other friends. One male friend I have she is always asking about because she knows he is attracted to me. I drive him to work and she wanted to know how much time I spend in the car with him, etc. She is very creative and enjoys chalk drawings of which she showed me her latest of a naked woman, nameless of course. She mentioned one time that she would have an easier time having a short term fling with a woman than a man because she wasn’t looking for a long term thing with a woman. She says she’s straight. But then she tells me that she will never have an intense relationship like she does with me with anyone else ever. I am confused because this feels different than my other relationships.
Is she playing games with me? Does it sound like she is attracted to me or am I nuts? This is a new feeling for me also.
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Go for it… just make a romantic diner and kiss her
Yeah, it definitely sounds like she’s attracted to you.
Well, at least, you have a legitimate base to ask her to kiss you if she’d like.
Next time she’s telling you something about women, tell her jokingly “Well girlfriend, stop playing and show me how you kiss a girl!”
LOL - Im going to try that line Jayfree…
Thanks! I guess I am still not sure about her. She sends me very mixed signals. Maybe one of these days I will get up the nerve to make a move.